Basis of Society - Mutual benefits!

The basis of human society is mutual benefits that each of its members get by association with each other. If there is no mutual benefit at all there would have been no social sense, and man would have lived by himself lonely, and there would have been no spoken language that has been developed for the social use! In ancient times when a man was corrected by another man indicating his mistakes, they both understood the benefits of association with others, and then wanted to be social always ( - and thus the language was also developed!).

Stop yourself after questioning these yourself!

Ask yourself:
1) Is it needed? (- if it is not needed, do not continue; stop doing it!)
2) Is it unknown? (- if unknown, do not explore, stop and avoid wasting time in it!)
3) Is it there any limit? (- if there is limit, and crossing this limit, stop it!)
4) Is it on proper time? (- if it is on improper time for doing, stop doing it!)
5) Is it a pleasing way of doing? (- if it is not pleasing, stop it!)
6) Is it a planned one? (- if yes, and you are out of the plan, stop it!)
7) Is it on an agreement? (- if yes, and it is against the agreement, stop doing it!)

Ask yourself these all seven questions each time you detract and act as shown within the brackets above to make yourself congenial to you yourself, and to the relatives, neighbors, friends and others - and to prevent any loss coming out of the work!

Choose the best and the right!

Choose the right and the best for you, yourself. Do not let others choose one for you; it may be advantageous for them in someway. If you are inexperienced, you can yourself seek the help and advices of others; but choose the right and the best one among them for you, yourself, here too!

Forethought in starting a project!

Before staring any new project, one should assess probability of its completion, possibility of its execution and presence of adequate resources. Then the concerned people who are to be inducted into the project must be called in for discussion about it. Without all these it will be hard to start the project itself, and there will be a much more probability of incurring loss in the project. So, one should have forethought in starting a project.

Motivation factors for pleasures!

Children see others doing some work and getting pleasures out of it. And they also note the delight and the satisfaction on their face appearing after that. By these the children are kindled to do those works by themselves and get pleasures that are hitherto unknown to them. Once they do and find out the pleasures themselves they go on to do the work repeatedly. They also express their happiness, delight and satisfaction on their face, and in words spoken. Other children watching these activities are also kindled; they too start to do by themselves. These are the basics of motivation for/and having pleasures from our environment!

Listen, identify by similarity or difference!

We, the earth living creatures, basically, listen to our environment, then after sometime identify the objects seen earlier in the environment - by similarity, and then in close-up identify any change - by difference, in the same object seen earlier. These processes of listening, identifying and finding differences go on repeatedly in all of our activities – since our birth! These processes are the necessities – to live on in this earth!

Verify hearsay before passing!

Only after you know a matter by yourself beyond any doubt, you should tell or teach about that to other persons. These persons in turn shall verify that matter themselves and pass it on to others. If a person doesn’t verify that, but believes in your words, it means that he has (blind) faith in you thinking that you have genuine experience about that matter! But it is always better for one and all to verify the matter they hear from others before believing it and/or passing it to others.

Comparing in Progressing!

Don’t compare your achievement level with those of others, when you are progressing up n life with your best efforts. There should be no looking back or on the sides. But you can compare with the people who are in the highest level ahead of you to get to their level – as you too have the same capacity, mind and body as they have. So it is the perseverance and the endurance in the efforts that matters in achieving progress.