Tips to live with self/soul!

     Self-sacrificing is equal to committing suicide. If one likes and wants a thing, he gets it for himself and retains it with himself. If he gives it to someone else, it means that he pulls away the thing from himself with his soul in it. Sensing, desiring, thinking about, asking, getting and adding it to himself are all lost! So, be with your self/soul without self-sacrificing.

Participate to arrive at a decision!

You have past half of your life. Every thing expected in life is achieved and completed. Now, you leave every activity of the family members to happen by itself and ignore them without any action from your side. This is equal to your committing suicide before your actual end of your life. So, do participate in their activities, discuss with them and make them arrive at a good solution, decision or resolution.