All of us, human beings - and even some other animals, have the same sense organs and perceive the same images, sounds or feelings from the same scenario of the same environment. Only, the impact of them on our mind and the thoughts emerging out of it make our responding activities different from each other (or each animal). Previous knowledge, involvement, importance and the desire to explore/get only influence these activities. So, whenever food or gifts or any material or service is offered, use your senses and decide whether to accept it or not. You can then say an yes or no to it by this instant decision that boosts your welfare :). That's your personality - uninfluenced by the personality of anybody else!
Showing posts with label Decision. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Decision. Show all posts
October 6, 2016
Participate to arrive at a decision!
You have past half of your life. Every thing expected in life is achieved and completed. Now, you leave every activity of the family members to happen by itself and ignore them without any action from your side. This is equal to your committing suicide before your actual end of your life. So, do participate in their activities, discuss with them and make them arrive at a good solution, decision or resolution.
October 31, 2013
Change decisions to adhere to the society!
For your better tomorrow, change your earlier decisions according to the present situation that has turned up now; then adhere/adjust to this newly made decision without being stubborn. Such change and adjustment of each member helps also in smooth functioning of the entire human society.
December 12, 2010
Question, decide and get out!
If you find no time at mornings before getting out to do regular work, but want to do some extra work, read here:
Ask yourself the following.
1) Is it important and essential to do that work?
2) Is it the proper time to do that work?
3) Is there possibility to extend the allotted time for that work and that could it become more time consuming?
Find answers for them and decide on this and do it / don't do it.
If you are already in doing that work (without any such decision), ask yourself these additional questions after those said above:
1) Is there any time to complete that work?
2) Will it affect the daily routine work?
3) Is it a waste of time at doing such a work?
If answers to these later questions are No, Yes and Yes respectively, stop that work immediately and get out of it, to get out!
Ask yourself the following.
1) Is it important and essential to do that work?
2) Is it the proper time to do that work?
3) Is there possibility to extend the allotted time for that work and that could it become more time consuming?
Find answers for them and decide on this and do it / don't do it.
If you are already in doing that work (without any such decision), ask yourself these additional questions after those said above:
1) Is there any time to complete that work?
2) Will it affect the daily routine work?
3) Is it a waste of time at doing such a work?
If answers to these later questions are No, Yes and Yes respectively, stop that work immediately and get out of it, to get out!
August 1, 2010
Find ways and free yourself!
If one finds a difficulty, he/she must find ways to remove it. After taking a good decision to remove or resolve it, he/she must switch over to the next immediate work that is waiting in this world. Keeping on worrying and being always preoccupied with the short comings that have happened or may happen out of the difficulty should be avoided. We should free our mind and body out of this locking in and move out to enjoy the other existing pleasures.
January 3, 2009
Decision to grab the Chance!
You are confronted with two important matters to be decided on, and to choose one among them:
1) One is an important and routine work pending before you as a duty to be done.
2) The other one is a personal work that you desire most and is waiting for you to be done now; if you miss this chance you won't get it later.
What will you choose out of these two? - and postpone the other one now?
Both are important to you - one for your enjoyment and satisfaction, and the other for your livelihood. But this later one is important to other persons also. So, weigh and analyze yourselves whether it is a chance waiting for you in reality. If you find the result as 'yes,' grab the chance of enjoyment - only after asking the others concerned to excuse yourself and assuring them that you will compensate for it in the very next possible time!
"Wish you all a Happy and Prosperous New Year, 2009!"
1) One is an important and routine work pending before you as a duty to be done.
2) The other one is a personal work that you desire most and is waiting for you to be done now; if you miss this chance you won't get it later.
What will you choose out of these two? - and postpone the other one now?
Both are important to you - one for your enjoyment and satisfaction, and the other for your livelihood. But this later one is important to other persons also. So, weigh and analyze yourselves whether it is a chance waiting for you in reality. If you find the result as 'yes,' grab the chance of enjoyment - only after asking the others concerned to excuse yourself and assuring them that you will compensate for it in the very next possible time!
"Wish you all a Happy and Prosperous New Year, 2009!"
October 4, 2008
Understanding for Decision!
The level of understanding becomes deep and deep appreciably as you age on and on, when compared to your younger generations. But it is cut short and blocked by your emotions such as fondness and dislike. This block induces you to take a hasty decision. So, think a while, whenever you become emotional. It will clear off the block and lead you to take a fair decision.
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