Educating or advising is to get disciplined in life!

   In human society, every people is expected to do each work as accepted and expected by all. For example, if a person wants to use a road that is used by all the people, he/she is expected to know all the road rules agreed upon, and to follow them while using the road. If no one either knows the rules or no one follows them, you know what will happen: all will risk their lives and get their vehicles involved in accidents, incidents or collisions. Similarly, a child doesn’t know either rules of the society to live in it or follow it. So, the children are persuaded to know them and follow them. Since their childhood, parents and teachers train them through persisting advices and school education - to adhere to the rules of the society. Thus their minds are disciplined to steer through the routine life smoothly inside the human society.

Choose advices to be the happiest!

Advices may be given intentionally - to produce either a good and productive result or a bad and destructive result with you. So, choose only good advice from a trustworthy person, whenever it is offered by a person or many persons. Such good advices are born out of the entire lifetime experiences of those trustworthy persons. If they are followed, they shall bring in you the happiness those persons had then, added to your own happiness! Now you become the happiest one! Similarly, warning advices from such persons shall also prevent you from treading on to a wrong path in your life. Their advices are like software of computers. Books with such advices are also storehouses of such software of advices; their pages contain the software that steer and lead you to happiness!

Revise your advice before it is done!

You advise others to do certain things or not to do certain things, thinking that you are doing it only for their welfare. But in this concerned act of yours, you often forget that it can affect their independent personal wishes, and that they may act on your advice only reluctantly and hesitantly. So, before advising, think and consider about the result of such advices, and moderate it down optimally.

Learning as a chick does!

To learn something easily without any confusion one has to follow a 'Guru' with his guidance, like a chick follows its mother hen for guidance in pecking at food. Think about the condition of a chick without its mother hen. So, if you come across persons seeking guidance you can give them advice, guidance and help, and you need not hesitate in it.

Choose the best and the right!

Choose the right and the best for you, yourself. Do not let others choose one for you; it may be advantageous for them in someway. If you are inexperienced, you can yourself seek the help and advices of others; but choose the right and the best one among them for you, yourself, here too!

Accepting advices!

One must analyze, infer and choose from advices spoken to him/her, or referred by him/her in books or writings – and verify its credibility before acting on it.