Living by participating in activities!

      After retirement from your work, if you leave every occasion/situation/event to go on as by itself and ignore them without any action from your side, it is equal to your finishing your own life yourself. So, do participate in all the activities, discuss with others to make them understand the problem, find solutions to them and to arrive at a good result. 

Finding out methods to follow!

      For learning, and for doing activities, three methods are there. The first one of them is to accept the experience of others to be good, easy and useful, and follow them. The second one is the observation of others doing them, forming his own opinion about it, as positive or negative, and following only the positive one; here, the negative one is rejected blindly and totally, forever, without any second thought. The third method is - testing personally the activity by himself or herself, deriving the result out of it, either to adopt the best one that suits him/her, or to reject the bad one. Find out yourself which one of these three methods you follow now, and decide whether to change it to the other one or not!

Create yourself to get the result!

                 There are circumstances, situations and environment that can be created by our self to get the desired result. An example for this is this: providing a child a good environment for getting his/her best education.

Revise your advice before it is done!

You advise others to do certain things or not to do certain things, thinking that you are doing it only for their welfare. But in this concerned act of yours, you often forget that it can affect their independent personal wishes, and that they may act on your advice only reluctantly and hesitantly. So, before advising, think and consider about the result of such advices, and moderate it down optimally.