Help before others ask you!

     A person should make others, especially children, remember about him throughout their lifetime. For that, he must be a good friend, guide and adviser in all the matters that others (children) might be seeking or desiring for. Thus, a helping attitude must be exercised in anticipation of others’ (children) needs, even before they ask him for helping!

Get help; but don't load others!

    At a time, when one has too many works to do, he/ she can delegate unimportant works to other family members or friends. He should do his own important work - he only should do it, and that work should not be delegated to others. After doing that work, he can do his other unimportant works that remain to be done by him. He only should do them, and complete. He should not ask others to do these works, as he is now free to do them, one by one, till all of them are finished.

Help to get helped!

     Think about the need of help that other family members might be expecting or requiring from you for themselves. Help them. And expect help for your needs from them too. And make them think about your needs, understand about it, and help you. This will make a better living, relationship, and will give much benefits within the family.

Helping too much lands you in trouble!

       You can win others if you find their needs, their preferences and offer these to them. And you can even correct their mistakes, and also offer them timely help. But too much indulgence in it may breed envy and make them reject your offers; beware of this!

Find out and support!

If possible give protection, support and care to others who are in need of them. These are required by all at each level of age and at various situations, stages and status of life. The most of such people requiring support are hesitant too. So, find them out yourself apart from those seeking your support by themselves, and extend the arm of help to them. If you offer such care and support either moral or material (or both of these), you appear/become a God to them.

Learning as a chick does!

To learn something easily without any confusion one has to follow a 'Guru' with his guidance, like a chick follows its mother hen for guidance in pecking at food. Think about the condition of a chick without its mother hen. So, if you come across persons seeking guidance you can give them advice, guidance and help, and you need not hesitate in it.

Choose the best and the right!

Choose the right and the best for you, yourself. Do not let others choose one for you; it may be advantageous for them in someway. If you are inexperienced, you can yourself seek the help and advices of others; but choose the right and the best one among them for you, yourself, here too!