Help before others ask you!

     A person should make others, especially children, remember about him throughout their lifetime. For that, he must be a good friend, guide and adviser in all the matters that others (children) might be seeking or desiring for. Thus, a helping attitude must be exercised in anticipation of others’ (children) needs, even before they ask him for helping!

Thoughts have been copied and pasted in Books!

        Thoughts that are formed in a person fade out and are forgotten soon. But all the activities of the person including his/her speech are seen and heard by others to be remembered by them later on. So, thoughts are a waste of mental energy when they become excess. One should limit them, and talk and do more activities using the idea or decision formed out of them.

Thoughts of the person cannot be felt by others using their senses, even though they stand very close to that person. But that person can transfer his/her thoughts to others by communicating/expressing them through their verbal words of speech, activities or through their written words. These can be done either by talking to them, participating in activities or by writing a letter/book for others to read. Now, through these, others will be able to remember his/her thoughts through all their lifetime!

Life is more than having more time to spend!

     Your 'presence in this time' now and full awareness of this 'time' are actually what make your life your own one. And mere having time is not your life; Thus, it is not as the younger people think that they have more time!

Mindful person has no birth or death!

        For a person in this world, "his time or his lifetime" is not pertaining to him. It is for others, to count or assess his years of age. When his activities - from his first breathing (birth) upto his last breathing that caeses (death), they are seen and felt only by others near him/her. So, the starting of life or the ending of life are seen only by others and not by the concerned person himself. Body is a form of vehicle for a person, (and it goes on changing from birth), in which he or his mind is born; it lives in it and goes out of it or stops to function, when the person's body itself stops to function totally.

Making yourself live in the minds of others!

      In a meeting, you should make each of its participants feel 'yourself' with all their senses. For this, you shall have to use all your senses to influence them. Then, each one of the participants shall remember you all through their lifetime - at least through that memory registered by one of his/her senses!

Don't demand more and more of pleasure!

      Like light and darkness repeat and like day and night repeat, our birth and death may repeat. Here in this world we get thus form, body and mind, and then give them back each time. But, we get only pain or pleasure on our each passing through our lifetime in this Earth.
      Our all experiences in each of these lifetimes are also forgotten with it. Thus, feeling of pain or pleasure is the only thing we have as our own now. So, with the pleasure that we get we must be satisfied and be content. With the pain, we must strive our hard to get rid of it, and move towards pleasure, and then get satisfied after getting it.
      Probably, seeking for more and more of pleasure or for more and more pleasure after the relief from pain may be the reason for our repeated rebirths in this Earth!

We divide lifetime into years to become lazy!

     We divide all and everything and put a limit for our common activities, convenience and comfort. By dividing and counting years too, we feel safe, comfortable, satisfied and easy; then with it we become lazy! But all of us have only one type of allotted 'year' or period - our lifetime that too is an inconsistent, unknown and varying period. The only real and constant fact is that all of us are existing at this contemporary time - all are living together at this time (of reading)! By being aware of these (better earlier in younger age itself), each one of us shall understand its reality and be active at all this 'existing time' to have a comfortable, satisfied, easier and enjoyable life!

Limiting extends your time on Earth!

         In your life, know your limits (in everything). Limiting yourself within these limits extends your lifetime in the later years of your life. And it also makes you healthier, and your life more enjoyable! Take this in principle and make this your way of life at least in your middle age of life. Then you won't regret in your old age; but you shall feel happy then on having prevented wasting your energy and time limitless and saved them - for extending your lifetime!

Get rewarded out of challenging work!

With achievements in our regular and routine works, we don't feel them as achievements at all or we don't inform others about them proudly. They are felt only just as a subconscious completion of work, that too is forgotten in a few minutes. But when we do and complete a challenging and problematic work, we get the whole sensation of achievement, completion and satisfaction out of it which we don't forget at all, and remember it throughout our lifetime. So, face challenging works in life; go through them and conquer; get rewarded for it and recollect about it in mind forever to rejoice about it!

See and feel wonders to have a good mood!

Each day of our life must contain wonders and that too especially for our children. Wonders make life cheerful, and stimulate to expect more out of life. They change the mood easily from that one resulting from a dull routine life to that of an energetic, agile and fresh one. So, have your days full of wonders. Show also these wonders to children and youngsters: they won't forget you in their lifetime!

Assessing for Good work!

In all the phases of one’s lifetime, especially, if he/she is in middle age, the person must assess his capability and possibility before taking up any desired project.

Love and Lust

Love leads you to everywhere; but lust leads you to nowhere. Love lasts lifetime; but lust is short-lived only.