Finding out methods to follow!

      For learning, and for doing activities, three methods are there. The first one of them is to accept the experience of others to be good, easy and useful, and follow them. The second one is the observation of others doing them, forming his own opinion about it, as positive or negative, and following only the positive one; here, the negative one is rejected blindly and totally, forever, without any second thought. The third method is - testing personally the activity by himself or herself, deriving the result out of it, either to adopt the best one that suits him/her, or to reject the bad one. Find out yourself which one of these three methods you follow now, and decide whether to change it to the other one or not!

Opinions about Expenditures!

There is always differences in opinion about the expenditure incurred, both in the older generations and the younger generations. Older one thinks of it as too much, whereas the younger thinks it as normal! Older compares the 'number' value of the present day expenditure with that of his/her past experience. But the younger compares the 'existing number' values only, that are presented to him/her and to his/her peer groups. Older one should realize this and that the past number value does not hold now, and the younger should understand and respect the nature of the older and limit their expenditure to avoid any unnecessary and wasteful argument between them.

The Basis of Communication

Whenever an opinion present in the mind is expressed fully through the speech, it will form the basis for an effective communication. It will produce a good and expected result out of it.