Be calm to have a wonderful day!

    Make yourself calm for the present five minutes and expect good by avoiding any argument or anger in a difficult situation. Then you shall have a clear mind to think about and act; by this, you shall have a wonderful day that is spent with the others.

Opinions about Expenditures!

There is always differences in opinion about the expenditure incurred, both in the older generations and the younger generations. Older one thinks of it as too much, whereas the younger thinks it as normal! Older compares the 'number' value of the present day expenditure with that of his/her past experience. But the younger compares the 'existing number' values only, that are presented to him/her and to his/her peer groups. Older one should realize this and that the past number value does not hold now, and the younger should understand and respect the nature of the older and limit their expenditure to avoid any unnecessary and wasteful argument between them.

Choosing between Argument and Discussion

Argument on a matter gives only uncertainties at the end. A solution will not be arrived at easily. An argument often ends with emotional upheaval, and quarrel between the parties involved. But a discussion on the matter exposes the ignorance present in both sides of the parties. It makes them easily accept their ignorance and lets them learn calmly the facts and the realities by themselves, and to arrive at a solution easily and quickly - in a friendly manner.