Avoid unpleasantness by activities or by others’ advice!

       Expected unpleasantness may be converted into pleasantness by doing the needed activities that could avoid any occurrence of that unpleasant happening. These activities will also bring in us satisfaction and peace in mind. Then, we will be having also a mind set-up for wishing and doing activities for getting pleasantness in other expected activities also! 

      Or, in an another way to deal this: it will be first better not to do any activities at all towards it, thereby avoiding tension also, and follow only what elder and wise people do or advise us on avoiding such unpleasantness.

What do they like?

    Younger people do not like elder people’s advice, reporting or informing. They like only fun from them!

Advise, remind and repeat to get response!

      Advise, remind and repeat - these are the three words that the ageing parents have to keep in mind and use for helping their children, who don't respond to their advice at present. Even though their children do not respond now, they may get an idea from this advising to respond at times of emergency situation in future.

Remind yourself and also advise others!

      Know that, remember that and remind yourself that, the people around you and others are not objects (or puppets, or pets) as you may think; they have their own mind and body, and freedom. They too are susceptible to changes, according to their changed situations. So, do not attempt intensively to revert them back in your way; it may be unfair to them in their angle of view. But, advise them in a few friendly words to lead and live in a good and correct path for their own welfare. Let them change themselves!

Be active to cheer up parents!

   Parents would like their kids to be active, play (or work), eat and enjoy life. Do not make them sorrowful by your inactivity, despair or laziness; cheer up them - to get their advice, from which you can get the hope, and work for your bright future! 

Advice on advising others!

        Unlike giving succour at difficult situations, others may or may not accept either our voluntary suggestion or advice in any matter. They may dislike or reject them hurting us. But when they seek us, and ask us, we can give advice; but with that they may not get satisfied. So, do advise them in such a situation, but only when you know their ulterior motive for such approach; otherwise, be cautious, on guard and don't indulge too much in it: advise only - that too lightly!

Desire makes warning ignored!

Desire is the worst enemy of a man's intellect. For our goodness, our intellect advises or warns us of our deviation to the improper way; but our desire makes us ignore those advice or warning!