Be calm to have a wonderful day!

    Make yourself calm for the present five minutes and expect good by avoiding any argument or anger in a difficult situation. Then you shall have a clear mind to think about and act; by this, you shall have a wonderful day that is spent with the others.

Knowledge is the tool to proceed with clarity!

        Assessing probability and guessing works make one only to have uncertain, hesitating or confused state of mind; here, there is delay in doing all activities, with not knowing what to do or what not to do. Knowledge can bring in one, the idea or opinion that is accepted and advised as truth by most people/government at that time; it can dispel the uncertainty prevailing and give a clarity in mind to make a firm decision, and proceed to do the chosen activity boldly. Because, doing at least something proper is better than remaining without doing anything at the crucial time. So, first one must have the knowledge on the disturbing situation, for example, such as in this Corona Virus infection 2019, and then that on the ways to deal with it; then he can get all the doubts in it cleared, make a decision, do whatever needed and get relief in the situation, peace and satisfaction in the mind.

Make awareness, to alert and deal in the situation!

     An awareness is created. Later when one finds a situation to occur, he suddenly feels and understands the purpose for which that awareness was created then in him, by remembering that awareness now. And thus he gets alerted from it, expects something to happen and prepares himself to meet and deal with it. So, make awareness in near and dear, relatives and friends.

Communicate, to be not envied upon!

       When you do caring activities with the person moving near you, with the consciousness of his presence, and communicating with him now and then, you and that person merge as one body having one mind! But when you go away at a distance and do activities with another person, the former person feels you as a separate individual and may begin to envy, and become sad due to the separation.
      To avoid such situation, you should do activities first with both the persons and communicate with both of them. Later on, even when you are separate with the second person, the first person may not become depressed or envy, though he may feel the separation yet; he shall quickly adjust to such separation.
An example for this: A second baby is born in the family next to the first born kid!

What others expect of you?

    When you have attained maturity in life, youngsters expect your experience, guidance and your being pleasant with them. But they don't expect your advice, as they don't wish or need it. And they may feel uncomfortable/unpleasant about it! [But, in spite of it you can advise them once or twice, when it is of importance in the situation dealt with].

Valuing is the key before an activity!

       Valuing is there in all our actions without our knowing it. It arises out of either a desire or a need. But to do an action, one should value it wisely and properly. An action may be 'less important' or 'important' or 'the most important' for him at a given situation. He can value one and do it as it presents itself. But consider a situation when many actions are intended to be done and thus all of  them present themselves at the same time. Here he should first value them all and select one that he finds valuable, wise and important to him and then do it. After doing it, he can proceed to do the next one that he finds and feels important and good for him.

Learn the nature to tackle the situation!

      First observe timing and response to an activity in a person or an object to learn about the nature. And then react accordingly in a wise way for tackling the situation.

Advice on advising others!

        Unlike giving succour at difficult situations, others may or may not accept either our voluntary suggestion or advice in any matter. They may dislike or reject them hurting us. But when they seek us, and ask us, we can give advice; but with that they may not get satisfied. So, do advise them in such a situation, but only when you know their ulterior motive for such approach; otherwise, be cautious, on guard and don't indulge too much in it: advise only - that too lightly!

Change decisions to adhere to the society!

For your better tomorrow, change your earlier decisions according to the present situation that has turned up now; then adhere/adjust to this newly made decision without being stubborn. Such change and adjustment of each member helps also in smooth functioning of the entire human society.