Entertain kids by entertaining yourselves!

       Like we get entertainment and enjoy our life, we must let our children too get entertained, and enjoy up to their suitable level. Fixing targets like getting good marks and thereby getting a good job are not enough. Don't stop with these advising/assigning targets. We must make them learn how to enjoy, by seeing ourselves enjoy. We can also let them have hobbies in their leisure time as we have. Later, when we enjoy life even in our old age also, all these can guide our children to enjoy all through their life during their education, job and even beyond these!

Make all affectionate!

     Love, care and support, that are rendered towards kids, make the kids have faith in the person and be affectionate with him/her! And mere care and support can also make an affectionate friend for a person rendering them!

Kids llike to repeat what we find to be bore!

    Children want to get fun activities repeated, as they have no boredom in such activities. So, don't ask them whether they are 'bored' in it. They may get wrong impression out of it and may begin to stop that fun activity all together - a man made repulsion against this normal nature of children.

Train kids to handle themselves in the Nature!

     Children must get the training of their muscles by handling natural objects present in the environment. Do not make them entirely dependent on the objects provided at the school. Give the kids those objects present in the Nature (or at least, point to them) even if the man-made similar objects are provided at school. This will prepare them to be aware of the realities of the environment existing and waiting for their exploration - leaving behind the present day virtual world being created by the ignorant humans.

Conditioned kids follow approved routine of life!

          Children are born with all the capabilities of doing all the activities. But they are first taught what to do and what not to do in this world. They are set to do activities liberally - but with certain conditions. These conditions and some other instructions must be informed or communicated to them clearly, so that they understand them fully before doing any of the activities. If they are not conditioned like this, they may take liberty at their hands, go astray and cross the limits - taking routes to a rude state that the society shuns and forbids.

'Children only' levels!

        Children have limited understanding capabilities depending upon their knowledge gained from age to age. This capability of them should not be even tried to be pushed up towards adult level. If you do so, it may affect children's emotional and mental functions. All such levels of understanding, knowledge, emotion and mentality should be equal and balancing, pertaining to the age of the child.
Do not treat kids as adults learning their school subjects or doing mischief. There are 'children only' levels too. Do not make these levels crossed and moved to the 'adults only' levels! Let them learn or understand according to and appropriate to their ages.
Treat children as children at children's level only - both in punishing and appreciating too. Do not overload kids as adults!

Make kids enjoy now!

      Children have simple and singly concentrating mind; they have thus much potentialities to enjoy greatly than the adult members of the family. Their childhood pleasant events and enjoyment shall linger in their memories as great, all through their adulthood. So, let them enjoy in all aspects in their childhood itself by providing them all the opportunities - within limits!

Be active yourself to make kids romp!

   Adults should do their activities with their full expression and emotion without suppressing them. Then, on seeing them, the kids shall respond similarly and shall repeat so in their adulthood too. This shall also make a good impression and congenial attitude in the minds of relatives and friends!

Share your enjoyment with kids!

    Create for children situations to enjoy every activity; create an environment for them to make the place enjoyable. Guide them and communicate with them to experience and enjoy every activity with wonder and enthusiasm. Involve yourself also in their activities, enjoying, and making them to have a share from your enjoyment that they will remember for lifetime.
      Even a little enjoyment, that we consider as less important one, will be a greater one to children; it will be like one of our enjoyment that we feel now and think as a great one to have in our lifetime!
      So, make life enjoyable in each activity of children so that their later life shall also be enjoyed by them pleasantly, even when we are away from them.

Be active to cheer up parents!

   Parents would like their kids to be active, play (or work), eat and enjoy life. Do not make them sorrowful by your inactivity, despair or laziness; cheer up them - to get their advice, from which you can get the hope, and work for your bright future! 

We share to care all!

We, as parents, give care to our children since their birth. After they are grown up, married and begotten/blessed with their own kids, we give our grandchildren additional care. When we grow older, will our own children give care to us? They should give care and love as they themselves shall want their kids to give them care and love in their old age, isn't it? So, sharing care, though we are unaware of it, shall give mutual care to all the generations to follow us! So, share to care all!