Make kids enjoy their lives!

   Let or make the children desire, seek, be absorbed, concentrated and involved in educational and playing activities to forget about the routinized (adult) life, that we live, and enjoy their own childhood life!

Making anything into a possibility!

        Everything is possible in this world, if there is the need, and the desire, and if the concerned activity is also done with hope, involvement and perseverance.

Retain your personality - by making your own decision!

       All of us, human beings - and even some other animals, have the same sense organs and perceive the same images, sounds or feelings from the same scenario of the same environment. Only, the impact of them on our mind and the thoughts emerging out of it make our responding activities different from each other (or each animal). Previous knowledge, involvement, importance and the desire to explore/get only influence these activities. So, whenever food or gifts or any material or service is offered, use your senses and decide whether to accept it or not. You can then say an yes or no to it by this instant decision that boosts your welfare :). That's your personality - uninfluenced by the personality of anybody else!

Challenging or achieving? Choosing the best!

       If one challenges and does a deed, the resulting victory shall be lost only: soon this victory will fade away making him not satisfied with it and to challenge next for another targeted deed. A deed done with one's own desire is a different one; it may take a longer time to become victorious; but that resulting victory, called here as achievement, will be everlasting, not only in the mind of the person but also in the minds of other persons associated with him. So, choose this best one!

De-addicting from the addicting hobby!

      Hobby is doing the desired work at one's leisure time. But if one is desirous to continue it even into his routine works time, it becomes an addiction to that hobby work. To dissuade from it, one should refuse it now to himself and postpone it to a later time or a later day. But on that very postponed time/day he must distract or divert himself to another routine work in a different place at a distance from that hobby-site. Next time if he gets again that desire, he must restrain himself again by diverting as before. Soon he will begin to feel the better aspects of not doing that addicting hobby that is done without any time consciousness. Then, even when he returns back to it later on, he will do it only in his leisure time! And he won't do it beyond any set limit; he shall restrict himself within his leisure time. And he shall have become then totally de-addicted from that addicting hobby!

Valuing is the key before an activity!

       Valuing is there in all our actions without our knowing it. It arises out of either a desire or a need. But to do an action, one should value it wisely and properly. An action may be 'less important' or 'important' or 'the most important' for him at a given situation. He can value one and do it as it presents itself. But consider a situation when many actions are intended to be done and thus all of  them present themselves at the same time. Here he should first value them all and select one that he finds valuable, wise and important to him and then do it. After doing it, he can proceed to do the next one that he finds and feels important and good for him.

More and more! What is it?

      If your wealth through your job is sufficient for your living and satisfaction, why should you desire for more? If you achieve this 'more' status, then even after this why should you expect for that 'more and more'? Even worse will be your condition when you expect beyond this 'more and more' and become crazy in it! So, be satisfied with what you have now, or at least set a level for this 'more' and limit yourself within it and live a peaceful life after achieving it!

How food influences life expectancy?

The food we take in also influences on our life period in this world! A quarter of our life period may be lessened by our excessive in-take of food than that our body requires. So, we have to avoid craziness towards food. Our mind must give way for the assessment of the degree of  hunger rather than to our desire and food availability - that is either in plenty or scarcity. Another quarter of our life period may be lessened by the bad quality of food that is taken in, either with knowing about it or without knowing about it! Then, when one is in his middle age of life (after not being crazy and taking good food!), he should understand that as the body systems become older and older, the power of digestion also declines, and that he must adjust and align his desires and hunger with proportion to that. If he doesn't adjust so, a quarter of his remaining life may be lessened! Though we cannot extend our lifetime beyond the allotted time limit, we can achieve at least that allotted time. Isn't it? So, all these three factors in eating food must be considered at one and the same time itself, before we make any food a habitual one (- depending on our age either by changing it or altering it, or by replacing it). All these factors are interlinked and interdependent to determine our existence in this world!

Get out for peace!

You see on anything only to feel or to do something; that some thing is done on your desire to do it after seeing that anything. In this process, you don't think about anything else and are not distracted by anything else. That's why at times when your mind is disturbed, for example, if you get out and go to places like cinema theatres and listen to that you desire, you get pacified!

Advertising - is making desires!

Desire is the expectation formed in one's mind either by his past experience of the enjoyment or by imagination of a new enjoyment after he hears about it from friend or by his own seeing others in enjoyment. There is no need to say about how advertisements lure you to have desires for the products or to have those products on the spot by instant purchasing! Examples for such advertising:

Type 1 lure - giving a free sample to experience and enjoy!
Type 2 lure - influencing by demonstrating the product in front of you!
Type 3 lure - recommending by already experienced or popular persons via media!
Type 4 lure - making you to see others experiencing the product via media!

Is it that the desire inducing is the sole target of advertising? Is it trick or treat, or cleverness in this competitive field?

Desire makes warning ignored!

Desire is the worst enemy of a man's intellect. For our goodness, our intellect advises or warns us of our deviation to the improper way; but our desire makes us ignore those advice or warning!

Milk induces the first desire!

Newly born baby cries first, feeling unpleasant, uncomfortable and unsafe outside in the external environment, being removed of its mother's womb comforts. But when it drinks first it's mother's milk, it feels good and satisfied with the taste of the milk and stops crying; it hopes now the world's environment to be pleasant, comfortable and safe. It moves its arms and legs in ecstasy and goes to sleep in peace. This is the point where the first desire is born in the baby - to have more of the milk! So, mothers-to-be, don't forgo or postpone breast feeding milk to the new born! The very future of the baby rests on it, the 'amirtham', that comforts it to give it everlasting life and happiness!

Growing and moving is the aim of life!

In any living creature, including humans, nothing goes into the body except air (oxygen) and food; likewise, nothing goes out of the body except air and food (products and excretions). Each creature's body after its birth does only two changes due to these two processes of taking in and letting out - growing and/or maintaining in its size and moving on. But the living creature has to have only two things in its mind for these to happen - one is to get attracted towards its food and the other one is to have the desire to move towards it to taste it. Thus, moving for food, and taking food for growth and for movements are the ultimate basic purposes of  any creation. So, to be a living creature we have to be always eating, growing and moving. If we slow or stop these three, it means that we are going to be named as a diseased, aged or a dead person ultimately, by others. So, explore the environment, have the desire, eat properly and move out to show others you as a living person!

Getting satisfaction at work!

First avoid doing any work under compulsion. There should be no too much exertion in any work. Do the work that you desire to do. Don't go on continuing at a stretch to do a work for its completion's sake, crossing your capacity. Do the work calmly without being anxious on anything. Don't have any other important work next to the present work. If you have one, stop the present one and switch over to that important one; after completing this one, you can go back to the prior work. Take regular breaks within a work period to get a relaxed and refreshed mind and body for continuing the work. 

Desire, feel, enjoy & be happy!

Without desire (in mind) and enjoyment (through the senses and bodily activities), we are the same as the stone lying on the ground, though we respire and have heart beats. So, to be 'living' in this world, you shall have to show to others that you have energy by using it in doing activities. Do desire to act; feel, enjoy and be happy!

Get suitable ones and be healthy!

Search and get things or the work that you desire or that suits you. And use that thing or do that work to the limit of your capacity. This makes both your body and the mind healthy, avoiding anything unnecessarily overloading you.

Think positively and do - to get the desired!

Think positively with the hope of getting the object, or the job of your wish or achieving the goal set. And let all pray the God positively for that. Then the rest of it will be done by all of your time, energy, effort, activity, ability and the desire: you will get that object or that job wished, or achieve that goal - ultimately!

Expressing words by/of body or mind!

Do these words have the same or different meanings?

Desire
Want
Require
Willing
Like
Wish
Need

It is not clear to you, isn't it? Some of them have more or less the same meaning while others have different meanings and usage:
1. Desire and Like:
    I 'desire' something - to have or to be done.
    I 'like' something - to have or to be done.
                    Here both words use 'I' - I ( both the body and mind) desire/like to have something near or to be done to satisfy the inner self (soul).

2. Want and Need:
    I 'want' something - to have or to be done.
    I 'need' something - to have or to be done.
                    Here both the words use 'I' - (but either for the body or the mind) - (I,) the body/mind wants/needs something or something to be done for the convenience or comforts.

3. Require:
    I 'require' something - for my body.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the body) - 'I require to have something.'

4. Willing:
    I am 'willing' to have something - for my mind.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the mind) - 'I am willing to have something.'
5. Wish:
    I 'wish' to have something - for my body.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the body) - 'I wish to have something' - but that is not needed at present or it is not essential to have it now.

This is an anatomy of expressions :) 

                                   

Revert from foolishness!

Giving importance to one's plans or desires and acting on it at the proper time and situation is considered as wise. Dull headed people doing unimportant things are branded as foolish people. But what about learned people doing unimportant things? And when do they do these? They become temporarily foolish or addicted to those things when they become more lenient towards their desires than to using their intellect - in a weakened state of mind. Such people can revert to their previous state of being wise - by making their mind and body strong; it is done by doing what is needed and suited for the hour and their health in each of their activities of shorter duration first; at the end of each of such activities, they must realize its worthiness and get satisfied with it. This self training towards firmness when continued, shall build in them a strong will power to select the important ones and reject the unimportant ones from the activities presented before them - in these days of competitive and luxurious world.

Wish to get the desired thing easily!

Have desire for a thing; wish to get it and be also so wishing constantly with all the expectations while trying to get it. Then your work will be easier and it will give more happiness than ever to your mind, when you get that thing ultimately!