Do that work first and ensure safety!

    Whenever you are planning to do an important work, do only that one and do not mix it with many more other unimportant works. After doing that important work exclusively, return back the valuable documents of it and place them safely in their respective places of safety. And only after this, go and do the other works. This routine practice if carried out and continued without any lapse, it shall ensure the safety of your valuable documents.

Change routine to refresh!

       Do not do the same routine activities daily after returning home from office work; either change the order of doing them or do new unplanned activities that shall be creative to yourself and others. It shall also refresh you!

Expose kids to choose and enjoy!

      Children must be exposed to all the objects, places and activities in the environment. Let them explore all. They must know about them by your expression of appreciation about them. Then, they shall have interest, and choose the proper and the best one that they like among them. Such an exposure shall shape them, and lead them to make their future life pleasant and worthy.

Wish deeper to the heart to happen!

      Pray, wish or desire it to happen. It shall happen if you are really in need of it from the deepness of your heart (mind), if you do not have any other needs at that time, and do earnest activities towards it. Your wish will be answered and the miracle of its happening will be experienced in fast mode too, if you are at a younger age!  

What others expect of you?

    When you have attained maturity in life, youngsters expect your experience, guidance and your being pleasant with them. But they don't expect your advice, as they don't wish or need it. And they may feel uncomfortable/unpleasant about it! [But, in spite of it you can advise them once or twice, when it is of importance in the situation dealt with].

Punish and then console kids to set them right!

      If a child beats you unexpectedly, you react suddenly by beating it back. Then you realize and repent that you yourself were unfair to it. In that instant, even if you first punished the child, the other family members console, then advise and warn the child not to do that mischief or wrong thing once again. And they forgive the child at that instant itself, and the child stops crying. Thereafter you shall find the child not repeating that activity! 

Greatness of Him is not yet felt!

     Greatness is understood by people either by comparing or from others' narration about it. So, greatness can be either felt through one's own senses by comparing or through others' speech/words communicated by them. Children believe in speech/words rather than believing through their senses.  'God is great' - here people choose to hear the greatness of Him through others' words only! Does any one feel His greatness through his/her senses? We are still like children believing in words! We should begin to feel Him and His greatness through our inner senses by spirituality. 

De-addicting from the addicting hobby!

      Hobby is doing the desired work at one's leisure time. But if one is desirous to continue it even into his routine works time, it becomes an addiction to that hobby work. To dissuade from it, one should refuse it now to himself and postpone it to a later time or a later day. But on that very postponed time/day he must distract or divert himself to another routine work in a different place at a distance from that hobby-site. Next time if he gets again that desire, he must restrain himself again by diverting as before. Soon he will begin to feel the better aspects of not doing that addicting hobby that is done without any time consciousness. Then, even when he returns back to it later on, he will do it only in his leisure time! And he won't do it beyond any set limit; he shall restrict himself within his leisure time. And he shall have become then totally de-addicted from that addicting hobby!

Don't beat yourself!

      Retaliating with the members in your family will only bounce back to yourself as a rifle recoils itself back or as a boomerang returns back; this effect shall be realized later only. It is like beating on yourself thinking that the other person is a different one standing in front of you!

Quit conversing if otherwise!

     In conversation, we may go on hesitating to speak and may be also not attentive to listen to others. One of the persons you are conversing with may lie. Another one may have incomplete knowledge on the subject discussed and fill it with all his guess and inform it. So, we must converse when we ourselves are attentive and bold to express, and that too with those persons who have complete knowledge and who are also attentive and earnest. Otherwise, it is better not to converse at all on this subject and quit the group!