Excite and expect to have satisfaction!

       Excitement and expectation present before an ensuing event plays a major role in getting the most enjoyment and pleasure out of it. The absence of them felt at the end of that event clearly indicates that to us, even though we get the full satisfaction then! 

Planning ruins the goal of enjoyment!

        General planning shall be good for effective administration. But that planning for each of the day's activities with setting limits for each of them shall jeopardize the interest and enjoyment in it, and the whole day shall be lost and wasted without any satisfaction!

Please others to clear mind space!

        Make this present five minutes of time enjoyable for others. Then, you will get plenty of space in mind to get your enjoyment now or later!

Enjoy and share, to be liked by all!

      A person shall be congenial to all and be liked by many, when he/she enjoys life and shares enjoyment with others or makes others enjoy or be happy too!

Imbalance in enjoyment is linked to comparison!

Causes of having imbalance in enjoyment and satisfaction, as perceived by people when they compare with others:
1. Greediness can be one of the causes of violent men.
2. Being inadequate with basic needs.
3. Inad'equate' with, others' facilities and conveniences seen and compared with, though basically met with needs.
4. Having temperament to torture others, as one was dissatisfied with another one aspect of life.
5. Losing what one had as comforts and conveniences earlier, that provokes to extort things from others.
6. Accumulating wealth than required for sustenance, attracts others to extort from him.
7. The flamboyant and explicitly exhibiting nature of having many thlngs in life as possessions, comparing to others.
8. Giving much to others, indicating to others as having many, attracts plunderers.
9. Not helping others when asked for help.
10. Mentally distorted people who have no judgement on life.

The way to mutual and equal enjoyment!

     One says that he/she enjoyed to his/her heart's content. But they don't say always that 'we' enjoyed to the heart's contents. Because, each one is different from the other. One can feel and enjoy only with in his place, at the mind or the body. Then what makes them all enjoy, and say that 'we' enjoyed with the company and presence of each other? It is only the mutual and effective communication between them. It is the complete expression from the heart that makes them enjoy - though they are separated bodily from each other! So, communicate with the persons present in front of you with total interest and involvement, expressing that too with all the possible gesture and body languages - to enjoy the situation mutually and equally!

Make kids enjoy now!

      Children have simple and singly concentrating mind; they have thus much potentialities to enjoy greatly than the adult members of the family. Their childhood pleasant events and enjoyment shall linger in their memories as great, all through their adulthood. So, let them enjoy in all aspects in their childhood itself by providing them all the opportunities - within limits!

Share your enjoyment with kids!

    Create for children situations to enjoy every activity; create an environment for them to make the place enjoyable. Guide them and communicate with them to experience and enjoy every activity with wonder and enthusiasm. Involve yourself also in their activities, enjoying, and making them to have a share from your enjoyment that they will remember for lifetime.
      Even a little enjoyment, that we consider as less important one, will be a greater one to children; it will be like one of our enjoyment that we feel now and think as a great one to have in our lifetime!
      So, make life enjoyable in each activity of children so that their later life shall also be enjoyed by them pleasantly, even when we are away from them.

Advertising - is making desires!

Desire is the expectation formed in one's mind either by his past experience of the enjoyment or by imagination of a new enjoyment after he hears about it from friend or by his own seeing others in enjoyment. There is no need to say about how advertisements lure you to have desires for the products or to have those products on the spot by instant purchasing! Examples for such advertising:

Type 1 lure - giving a free sample to experience and enjoy!
Type 2 lure - influencing by demonstrating the product in front of you!
Type 3 lure - recommending by already experienced or popular persons via media!
Type 4 lure - making you to see others experiencing the product via media!

Is it that the desire inducing is the sole target of advertising? Is it trick or treat, or cleverness in this competitive field?

Work and enjoy benefits at present!

If you work for getting the immediate benefits and happiness, it is more meaningful and wiser. But if you toil now for those benefits in the remote future, it is meaningless and foolish. Enjoy the benefits and be happy at the present day using the hard earned money. Plan for the future benefits and happiness that fit to your present capacity to earn in the long run. Don't fall prey to other's 'carrot & stick' method of advising on your future and then actually achieving their wishes through your hard work. So, plan for your future aptly without affecting your present day enjoyment.

Desire, feel, enjoy & be happy!

Without desire (in mind) and enjoyment (through the senses and bodily activities), we are the same as the stone lying on the ground, though we respire and have heart beats. So, to be 'living' in this world, you shall have to show to others that you have energy by using it in doing activities. Do desire to act; feel, enjoy and be happy!

Refresh to enjoy!

To enjoy with a good mood  whether it is your activity or that of others, first your body and mind must have refreshed themselves with your rest and sleep. 

Have mood to enjoy!

If we have a good outlook and expectation, we get full mood for enjoyment. Without this mood if you begin to enjoy a moment you shall get only half of it. So, create this mood both in the people around you and within you to get the best and the most of enjoyment; or permit and let others create the mood for you in you!

Excesses impair future enjoyment!

If one carries out anything to his/ her excess, even though he/ she enjoyed it, his/ her body or mind will have been affected by it. This endangers his/ her future enjoyment next with these damaged body or mind. So, avoid this foolishness and be wise by limiting your activities whenever your mind or body begins to warn you about crossing the limit and that it is not pleasing to it on the other side of enjoyment activity.

Forget to enjoy the most!

Forget the past (and the present body & mind) to enjoy more at present (and also in the future)! Forgetting and enjoying are ageless - not related to the age: any person, young or old, can have the benefits out of them. Even rivals (or enemies one to the other) can forget the differences and enjoy the situation and company that they would have missed then and would have never thought of it - in their lifetime!

Enjoy and do not have tension!

You have planned nicely for a picnic trip, allotting all the money and time for it and hence prepared well for it. Then why you should have tension all the time? The purpose of planning is to avoid any hindrance and to make the trip to go on smoothly. So, enjoying attitude must be there in the trip and not any tension in it. The success of your planning will be reflected and felt through the enjoyment you get from it.

Enjoy evening avoiding disappointment!

At evenings when you have leisure time, recollect whether you miss anything or lose something that day by not attempting to do it. Then get down to enjoy the evening. This will avoid your later disappointment that may null the effect of your present enjoyment later!

Work for enjoying with healthy body and mind!

Some people have only entertainment everyday and take rest after that. Yet some other people work all the day and after that they get entertainment before going to take rest. Among these two type of activities the first one may be good for the mind, but the next one is good for both the mind and body!

Allot more time and enjoy!

Till yesterday you had been rushing to work each day and got frustrated to be late each time. Now, as you have allotted more time today to prepare and move out to the daily routine work, say to yourself that "I have much time today and shall go to work slowly." Note the time in the wrist watch and confirm it that you have enough time, and slow down the speed of the vehicle you are driving and begin to enjoy this slowly riding pleasure. By this way you can calm yourself avoiding the daily hasty and anxious getting out to work, safely drive through the distance, enjoy working at your office or work site with more energy, and have your health boosted up.

Decision to grab the Chance!

You are confronted with two important matters to be decided on, and to choose one among them:
1) One is an important and routine work pending before you as a duty to be done.
2) The other one is a personal work that you desire most and is waiting for you to be done now; if you miss this chance you won't get it later.
What will you choose out of these two? - and postpone the other one now?
Both are important to you - one for your enjoyment and satisfaction, and the other for your livelihood. But this later one is important to other persons also. So, weigh and analyze yourselves whether it is a chance waiting for you in reality. If you find the result as 'yes,' grab the chance of enjoyment - only after asking the others concerned to excuse yourself and assuring them that you will compensate for it in the very next possible time!

"Wish you all a Happy and Prosperous New Year, 2009!"