Don't go on repeating for perfection's sake!

In your activities, you must have done the work to your satisfaction at the first time itself. Otherwise, not being satisfied, you may go on to do it more perfectly. It will be all right then if that work has become a more perfect one after this second attempt. But if you go on to that work again to do it more and more perfectly, it is wrong, a waste of time and energy. You could have done many more works in that time of undue perfection work - that too without getting tired much, feeling satisfied and happy of doing more works! So, don't go on repeating on the work for the sake its perfection.

Desire moderately and be happy!

Nobody can live like Buddha, as he had given up all the desires totally to be happy. But we can be also happy if we desire moderately and be content with that happiness resulting out of it. Only the desire to have more and more of happiness - that craziness should be given up to retain our happy state then forever!

Choose advices to be the happiest!

Advices may be given intentionally - to produce either a good and productive result or a bad and destructive result with you. So, choose only good advice from a trustworthy person, whenever it is offered by a person or many persons. Such good advices are born out of the entire lifetime experiences of those trustworthy persons. If they are followed, they shall bring in you the happiness those persons had then, added to your own happiness! Now you become the happiest one! Similarly, warning advices from such persons shall also prevent you from treading on to a wrong path in your life. Their advices are like software of computers. Books with such advices are also storehouses of such software of advices; their pages contain the software that steer and lead you to happiness!

Better to adjust with unavoidable ones!

If something is different and pleasing to our ears in our routine life, we allow it to happen more and more and often. Example: music, bird's call etc.. But if it is not pleasing to our ears, we can simply shut our ears with our hands instantly e.g. a noise. But there are, as you know, other unpleasant things in our daily routine life that are unavoidable and cannot be shut off like shutting our ears. We have to allow them, adjust to them and adapt to them - to be harmonious with them!  

Feeling more than usual!

You feel the warm water flowing on your hand from the shower. You take the hand out of it. Next, you extend it to a tepid or lukewarm (mildly warm) water flow of the shower. Now you will feel it much warmer or hot! After sometime, this hotness will turn to be felt as tepid as such! This effect is due to the presence of memory of warmth in the skin cells of the hand. And the addition of tepid water-feeling makes it seems to have become hotter though it is not actually hot. So, the memory of the past with the now added current feeling produces a greater feeling state! So, to get or feel more and much in your state of mind, first recollect your past experience before delving in the current experience of either a sensation or an activity!

Quit or accept to get the next benefits!

If you find a job (or a person) difficult to be with, either one must go apart immediately or accept, approve, adapt and adjust with it (or the person) throughout the life. This will avoid or end the troubling in both mind and body throughout his/her life!

Postpone to have a congenial life!

Selectively postpone your activities to a later time; but do those activities in the next possible time, as they may have then become important to do. This applies even to your personal activities too. Such a measure will safeguard you and make you congenial to the people you live with and the environment you live in! 

Find the needs to become God!

When any one of you find the sufferings or the urgent needs of others, and relieves or fulfils them to their satisfaction, that 'any one' of you becomes then the Saviour or the God to them!

Tips to win confidence!

Orient yourself towards others, assess what they expect, understand their needs and then act wisely to satisfy them. This will win confidence of others in you!

Don't lose your life's right!

It is (a) right for everyone to live an ordinary life like an ordinary man, whatever high position one held or holds now. He/she need not lose such life for the sake of popularity or position in the society.

Forget and adapt yourself!

Participate, involve, merge with the group and forget yourself in the group activities. This is one way to forget for now the pains and sorrows of life, and adapt yourself to them in the long run.

Getting satisfaction at work!

First avoid doing any work under compulsion. There should be no too much exertion in any work. Do the work that you desire to do. Don't go on continuing at a stretch to do a work for its completion's sake, crossing your capacity. Do the work calmly without being anxious on anything. Don't have any other important work next to the present work. If you have one, stop the present one and switch over to that important one; after completing this one, you can go back to the prior work. Take regular breaks within a work period to get a relaxed and refreshed mind and body for continuing the work. 

Postpone to live congenially!

Selectively postpone your activity to a later time; but do that activity in the next possible time - particularly, when it has become an important one to do then. This applies even to your personal activities too. Such a measure will safeguard you and make you congenial with the people you are living with!

Revise your advice before it is done!

You advise others to do certain things or not to do certain things, thinking that you are doing it only for their welfare. But in this concerned act of yours, you often forget that it can affect their independent personal wishes, and that they may act on your advice only reluctantly and hesitantly. So, before advising, think and consider about the result of such advices, and moderate it down optimally.

Live peacefully in the native place!

In smaller towns, villages and hamlets, people are content with their status in their places by understanding their limits, limitations, capacity and even their lower education. The honour they receive from their level and position in their society is sufficient and acceptable for them. They are also satisfied with their wages, profits or salary that they get for their work, materials or their services. They do not compare their income with that of the people living in cities or towns. That is why they live an easier and peaceful life. But only when they cross their limits by comparing, they too become crazy for a city life, a higher education and a higher income. When they move over to the cities then, they get only a few of those they desired and expected there, in exchange for their invaluable peace that they got in their native place. So, live peacefully in your native place! If already moved to city or town, return back to your native place and live peacefully!