Be wise and co-operate!

   Benefits of being co-operative, will be felt only when one feels himself/herself the loss of the companionship, incurred while being uncooperative with others!

Restricting to one's limits!

          As a person/his body ages on, he should be aware of  his own limits. And he should do activities with his body, within it's limits and to the extent of its capability only - without either overusing it or leaving it to remain idle!

Remind yourself and also advise others!

      Know that, remember that and remind yourself that, the people around you and others are not objects (or puppets, or pets) as you may think; they have their own mind and body, and freedom. They too are susceptible to changes, according to their changed situations. So, do not attempt intensively to revert them back in your way; it may be unfair to them in their angle of view. But, advise them in a few friendly words to lead and live in a good and correct path for their own welfare. Let them change themselves!

Accept changes and don't expect all!

      People of the younger age to the middle age should accept changes and situations, within limits [:)], that happen in them, in others or in the environment around them.
      But after their middle age, they should accept them all - as usual and natural things that happen in all the generations. And, they should not expect all that they wish to happen either in them, in others or in the environment around them. If they get what they expected, it's well and good; they must accept it - within limits!

Decrease to a minimum!

      It is everybody's nature to show their ability and capability to do their activities to a higher level. But this nature may affect both that person indulging in it and the children around him. For example, if you increase the TV sound volume, you may feel exhilarated; but the children around you shall be attracted by the sound towards the TV, stopping their playing/activities. This shall compromise on their learning. And it shall make them addicted to TV-viewing, and lead a sedentary life style in future. It is needless to say that all those listening to the TV with high volume shall also become susceptible to hearing loss. So, in TV listening, reduce volume level to a minimum.
        Another example for showing such high abilities is the raising accelerator of the vehicles to the maximum that shall land the person in trouble, surely.

Making yourself live in the minds of others!

      In a meeting, you should make each of its participants feel 'yourself' with all their senses. For this, you shall have to use all your senses to influence them. Then, each one of the participants shall remember you all through their lifetime - at least through that memory registered by one of his/her senses!

Speeding vehicle and the body's emergency reaction!

        Wherever there is speed, there will be a resultant body alertness to meet out any emergency, both inside and outside the body. Initially our body shall remain calm during the travel. But later when we speed up our vehicle, our body shall feel as if we are going (like walking or running) fast. It shall keep itself ready and be in tension to meet any emergency. This reaction happens even when one remains in a vehicle as a passenger. It is needless to say how the body of the person driving the vehicle fast will react for this! Whenever the body finds itself  to be unstable,  unlike that in the calm sitting posture, it triggers in itself  the preparedness to meet any emergency. So, it is better to avoid travelling fast frequently, even as a passenger. One has to allow periods of resting and calming down to the body either after such travel or in the intervening period of successive fast travels. Then one can be sure that he/she can avoid diseases arising out of such speeding!

'Children only' levels!

        Children have limited understanding capabilities depending upon their knowledge gained from age to age. This capability of them should not be even tried to be pushed up towards adult level. If you do so, it may affect children's emotional and mental functions. All such levels of understanding, knowledge, emotion and mentality should be equal and balancing, pertaining to the age of the child.
Do not treat kids as adults learning their school subjects or doing mischief. There are 'children only' levels too. Do not make these levels crossed and moved to the 'adults only' levels! Let them learn or understand according to and appropriate to their ages.
Treat children as children at children's level only - both in punishing and appreciating too. Do not overload kids as adults!

Help to get helped!

     Think about the need of help that other family members might be expecting or requiring from you for themselves. Help them. And expect help for your needs from them too. And make them think about your needs, understand about it, and help you. This will make a better living, relationship, and will give much benefits within the family.

Check before and after journey!

     Before starting for a trip, check in the house itself what all you yourself  are having and what others have with them. During the journey, after visiting each place, check on the place (even the car or the transporting vehicle) itself whether you all are having those belongings; then only leave the place. With such precautionary checking, you can be sure about your keeping them safely, without losing any of them in the trip.

Make kids enjoy now!

      Children have simple and singly concentrating mind; they have thus much potentialities to enjoy greatly than the adult members of the family. Their childhood pleasant events and enjoyment shall linger in their memories as great, all through their adulthood. So, let them enjoy in all aspects in their childhood itself by providing them all the opportunities - within limits!

Do that work first and ensure safety!

    Whenever you are planning to do an important work, do only that one and do not mix it with many more other unimportant works. After doing that important work exclusively, return back the valuable documents of it and place them safely in their respective places of safety. And only after this, go and do the other works. This routine practice if carried out and continued without any lapse, it shall ensure the safety of your valuable documents.

Change routine to refresh!

       Do not do the same routine activities daily after returning home from office work; either change the order of doing them or do new unplanned activities that shall be creative to yourself and others. It shall also refresh you!

Expose kids to choose and enjoy!

      Children must be exposed to all the objects, places and activities in the environment. Let them explore all. They must know about them by your expression of appreciation about them. Then, they shall have interest, and choose the proper and the best one that they like among them. Such an exposure shall shape them, and lead them to make their future life pleasant and worthy.

Wish deeper to the heart to happen!

      Pray, wish or desire it to happen. It shall happen if you are really in need of it from the deepness of your heart (mind), if you do not have any other needs at that time, and do earnest activities towards it. Your wish will be answered and the miracle of its happening will be experienced in fast mode too, if you are at a younger age!