Being aware of persons, objects or events!

A person having healthy mind and body:
           In such a person,taking an object as an example, his constant contact of that object with the stored memory of it produces in him a state of `Presence Awareness' of it. When he has infrequent contact with it, his stored memory of it is fading slowly, producing in him a state of doubtful `Presence/Absence Awareness' of it. But when he loses contact with it completely for a long time, his stored memory of it is lost producing in him a state of `Absence Awareness' of it. But he may remember that there was such an object near him; but it is not present near him now. That's the `now absent awareness' in him!
 Now, apply this with a person instead of an object:  
           If you have a constant contact and memory of him, you remember him; if having less contact and memory of him, you slowly forget him; if you don't have contact at all and memory of him, you completely lose memory of him. (This applies also to the absence of that person by his death). But, still you remember that there was that one person like him and he is now absent near you.
 Now, it is needless to say what will happen to events, if this is applied!

Get suitable ones and be healthy!

Search and get things or the work that you desire or that suits you. And use that thing or do that work to the limit of your capacity. This makes both your body and the mind healthy, avoiding anything unnecessarily overloading you.

Give care - get relief!

Giving dedicated care to others who are much in need of it, relieves your inner tension that has been produced by other unpleasant sources - apart from making them cheerful and happy out of your dedicated good care!

Mingle with society!

Do not feel alone - by making others alone! While getting and enjoying all the benefits of being inside or being with the human society, why should you seclude yourself from the other people of the society? Why shouldn't you come out, mingle and greet them in public places to show your gratitude? So, become cheerful and be cheerful by mingling with the people!

We are more amusing than television!

Television gives us entertainment. So, peoples are attracted towards it and they go near it on mere seeing it - though it is not yet switched on. Its entertainment-giving capacity attracts us thus and makes us next to switch it on. But television can give entertainment only when it is switched on. Why can't we make ourselves entertaining like a television does? That too without having to be switched on? For that, make others get attracted towards you with your amusing entertainments! Then they will approach you in crowds frequently, with more and more expectations to be amused by you! The best example for this are the movie actors who attract their fans like a magnet and this television!

Think positively and do - to get the desired!

Think positively with the hope of getting the object, or the job of your wish or achieving the goal set. And let all pray the God positively for that. Then the rest of it will be done by all of your time, energy, effort, activity, ability and the desire: you will get that object or that job wished, or achieve that goal - ultimately!

Change decisions to adhere to the society!

For your better tomorrow, change your earlier decisions according to the present situation that has turned up now; then adhere/adjust to this newly made decision without being stubborn. Such change and adjustment of each member helps also in smooth functioning of the entire human society.

Women made as pleasant mom and wife!

By virtue of their nature, women are made as a pleasant member of a family for both the born baby and the husband. Because, both of these later members need her pleasant nature so that they are sent into the world (society) after being cheered up - the baby grown up into adult and made fit to enter into the world of living and the husband energized, refreshed or consoled inside the house to be let out again into the world for doing his earning duty!

Being wise with intelligence!

Even intelligence may be misused by intelligent people in wasteful ways. They must direct themselves in useful ways and become wise in using their intelligence.

Learn and choose in work to continue or avoid!

In every activity, we must first learn or infer something - either to do it or not to do it. If we are rewarded in it, we must continue with it; but we must avoid it if we are affected by it. If it is not then possible to avoid it, you can adjust with others in doing that work at present, sharing the difficulties. If it continues to affect you even then, discontinue it and shift to another work that you expect to be more rewarding and gratifying.

Limit activity to save time and get satisfied!

If you limit any of your activity after assessing its consuming time, use, advantage, value and worthiness, you can save yourself from unnecessary wastage of energy and time. You can do other useful activities in that saved time and get satisfied with it.

Find out and support!

If possible give protection, support and care to others who are in need of them. These are required by all at each level of age and at various situations, stages and status of life. The most of such people requiring support are hesitant too. So, find them out yourself apart from those seeking your support by themselves, and extend the arm of help to them. If you offer such care and support either moral or material (or both of these), you appear/become a God to them.

Expressing words by/of body or mind!

Do these words have the same or different meanings?

Desire
Want
Require
Willing
Like
Wish
Need

It is not clear to you, isn't it? Some of them have more or less the same meaning while others have different meanings and usage:
1. Desire and Like:
    I 'desire' something - to have or to be done.
    I 'like' something - to have or to be done.
                    Here both words use 'I' - I ( both the body and mind) desire/like to have something near or to be done to satisfy the inner self (soul).

2. Want and Need:
    I 'want' something - to have or to be done.
    I 'need' something - to have or to be done.
                    Here both the words use 'I' - (but either for the body or the mind) - (I,) the body/mind wants/needs something or something to be done for the convenience or comforts.

3. Require:
    I 'require' something - for my body.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the body) - 'I require to have something.'

4. Willing:
    I am 'willing' to have something - for my mind.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the mind) - 'I am willing to have something.'
5. Wish:
    I 'wish' to have something - for my body.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the body) - 'I wish to have something' - but that is not needed at present or it is not essential to have it now.

This is an anatomy of expressions :) 

                                   

Express gratitude by visits and feel the God!

Greatness of a person/God shall be felt and appreciated only when we are near that person/God. So, we feel the "God's" presence and His greatness when we enter the temple. And in appreciating the "greatness" of the person, who has helped us at the time of need, we also feel the presence of God too out of it! So, the "God" and the "greatness" are equated here. Then, why shouldn't we visit temple and the person whenever we feel the greatness of that person? This is to express our gratitude and also to get the feel of  presence of God, doubly :)
17.08.2013:
Read here what I read recently and that Jagadh Guru Sri Chandrasekaraswamigal (Kaanchi Periavar) had advised all earlier in the past. I am wondering how his advice is the same as that I have posted above on 25.03.2013 in this blog post! (Click on the text to read maximized).

Refresh to enjoy!

To enjoy with a good mood  whether it is your activity or that of others, first your body and mind must have refreshed themselves with your rest and sleep.