De-addicting from the addicting hobby!

      Hobby is doing the desired work at one's leisure time. But if one is desirous to continue it even into his routine works time, it becomes an addiction to that hobby work. To dissuade from it, one should refuse it now to himself and postpone it to a later time or a later day. But on that very postponed time/day he must distract or divert himself to another routine work in a different place at a distance from that hobby-site. Next time if he gets again that desire, he must restrain himself again by diverting as before. Soon he will begin to feel the better aspects of not doing that addicting hobby that is done without any time consciousness. Then, even when he returns back to it later on, he will do it only in his leisure time! And he won't do it beyond any set limit; he shall restrict himself within his leisure time. And he shall have become then totally de-addicted from that addicting hobby!

Don't beat yourself!

      Retaliating with the members in your family will only bounce back to yourself as a rifle recoils itself back or as a boomerang returns back; this effect shall be realized later only. It is like beating on yourself thinking that the other person is a different one standing in front of you!

Quit conversing if otherwise!

     In conversation, we may go on hesitating to speak and may be also not attentive to listen to others. One of the persons you are conversing with may lie. Another one may have incomplete knowledge on the subject discussed and fill it with all his guess and inform it. So, we must converse when we ourselves are attentive and bold to express, and that too with those persons who have complete knowledge and who are also attentive and earnest. Otherwise, it is better not to converse at all on this subject and quit the group!

Be active yourself to make kids romp!

   Adults should do their activities with their full expression and emotion without suppressing them. Then, on seeing them, the kids shall respond similarly and shall repeat so in their adulthood too. This shall also make a good impression and congenial attitude in the minds of relatives and friends!

Using all your senses and experience!

       At young age, using all your senses you get and enjoy things you desire from the environment. Then, as you become aged, with all the experience you have gained in the life so far, you do the activities that interest you and others!

To be successful in any endeavour!

    If one can provide time, energy, money and effort to start and do his business/job/education, it will be worth of doing it. But if he also does that with some earlier planning for managing it all throughout it, he can complete and achieve it successfully!

Storing time for later use!

        We cannot save our time as saving our money in the bank. But you can divide and plan your time and allot yourself each unit of it to do your works and/to get the pleasures out of them. But you cannot preserve and save the present unused time and do the work in it later on. Once you are 'present' at this time of earthly hours, as others are present, you should either use it or pass through it wasted and unused. Thus you cannot stop it now and/to have it later on to use it! So, you shall have to 'have' your 'presence' with your total involvement, and that too with total awareness/consciousness in any work, that you might do within it. Here, you do the work feeling the passing away of time. Then only you shall have the memory of having used your valuable time usefully, without any regrets. By doing like this, you can also have all the benefits out of 'having the time of existence' in this world i.e. your life. Do not postpone work. Time doesn't have any future availing utility; use it wisely now itself!   

Staying child forever - in Image!

        We cannot stay as a child forever, even if you wish to be a child. With the food we eat, we change  - grow all the way through our ageing years. Even after our growth stops in our adult age, our shape goes on changing constantly. There are some slight alterations of our bones' shape either by dissolution or by addition of minerals. So, store an image (picture/photo) of yourself each day - to see the minute changes you and your body have made with the food you eat! You can see and compare your younger age photos and the recent photos to appreciate this. You may question now yourself and exclaim, 'Who is he!' or 'Am I he!'

Bliss is better than haappiness!

      Happiness is a temporary state of mind; later, it shall settle down and fade out in other day to day activities. But being in bliss means that the whole body, mind and the soul are in a joyful state that persists permanently; it shall be there on the background though varying in intensity at times - of sorrow or of happiness itself!

Valuing is the key before an activity!

       Valuing is there in all our actions without our knowing it. It arises out of either a desire or a need. But to do an action, one should value it wisely and properly. An action may be 'less important' or 'important' or 'the most important' for him at a given situation. He can value one and do it as it presents itself. But consider a situation when many actions are intended to be done and thus all of  them present themselves at the same time. Here he should first value them all and select one that he finds valuable, wise and important to him and then do it. After doing it, he can proceed to do the next one that he finds and feels important and good for him.

Share your enjoyment with kids!

    Create for children situations to enjoy every activity; create an environment for them to make the place enjoyable. Guide them and communicate with them to experience and enjoy every activity with wonder and enthusiasm. Involve yourself also in their activities, enjoying, and making them to have a share from your enjoyment that they will remember for lifetime.
      Even a little enjoyment, that we consider as less important one, will be a greater one to children; it will be like one of our enjoyment that we feel now and think as a great one to have in our lifetime!
      So, make life enjoyable in each activity of children so that their later life shall also be enjoyed by them pleasantly, even when we are away from them.

Avoid hastiness by forethought!

       One can have forethought to avoid hastiness and its bad outcome. An example for this is here. While boarding a train, passenger's all mental burdens urge and make him to rush; but this hastiness may lead him to trouble - to injure his body that shall delay him to resume back to his routine life or it may risk his life.
         So, in any activity to make it successful, one has to plan beforehand with forethought - at least for a few minutes well before executing it. And he has to arrive at the place of activity well before the accepted time too.
        In continuing the above example, one should plan time and things well beforehand, reach the train station platform before the stipulated time of train departure. Then only he can have a calm and clear but alert mind before boarding the train. And he shall then board the train with ease and without hastiness. And thus he can avoid injury and be safe to enter into the train - with the pleasing expectation of going to get travelling comfort!

Don't demand more and more of pleasure!

      Like light and darkness repeat and like day and night repeat, our birth and death may repeat. Here in this world we get thus form, body and mind, and then give them back each time. But, we get only pain or pleasure on our each passing through our lifetime in this Earth.
      Our all experiences in each of these lifetimes are also forgotten with it. Thus, feeling of pain or pleasure is the only thing we have as our own now. So, with the pleasure that we get we must be satisfied and be content. With the pain, we must strive our hard to get rid of it, and move towards pleasure, and then get satisfied after getting it.
      Probably, seeking for more and more of pleasure or for more and more pleasure after the relief from pain may be the reason for our repeated rebirths in this Earth!

Find and adopt accepted ways to prosper!

      When a person gains experience in life with the ageing on, he can be sure of finding ways easily to thrive and lead his best life. But these ways should be adopted and managed in the society-accepted correct and proper manner only, and that too done at correct and proper time.      

We divide lifetime into years to become lazy!

     We divide all and everything and put a limit for our common activities, convenience and comfort. By dividing and counting years too, we feel safe, comfortable, satisfied and easy; then with it we become lazy! But all of us have only one type of allotted 'year' or period - our lifetime that too is an inconsistent, unknown and varying period. The only real and constant fact is that all of us are existing at this contemporary time - all are living together at this time (of reading)! By being aware of these (better earlier in younger age itself), each one of us shall understand its reality and be active at all this 'existing time' to have a comfortable, satisfied, easier and enjoyable life!