Do all, not a few at all times!

If you indulge in a work too much, at the end you may get the appreciation on your achievement - by some of the people. But you may not appear normal to others living near you. You can instead do all - both the duty bound and the interesting works so that many people can appreciate you from the start of the work itself. The best example for this is studying for the examinations: if you read all the subjects of the course equivocally and appear for the exams, you pass out with flying colors)! All will appreciate you now, is it not? (Reading only a few subjects for a long time overlooking all the rest and failing in other exams - and hence not promoted to the higher class is disgusting). Likewise, apply this to your works and see the honor and appreciation you receive!

Doing wonders in life!

When a man/woman sees excellence in everything with faith, and follows it with well directed mind, he/she gets and does everything wonderful in his/her life!

Basis of Society - Mutual benefits!

The basis of human society is mutual benefits that each of its members get by association with each other. If there is no mutual benefit at all there would have been no social sense, and man would have lived by himself lonely, and there would have been no spoken language that has been developed for the social use! In ancient times when a man was corrected by another man indicating his mistakes, they both understood the benefits of association with others, and then wanted to be social always ( - and thus the language was also developed!).

Stop yourself after questioning these yourself!

Ask yourself:
1) Is it needed? (- if it is not needed, do not continue; stop doing it!)
2) Is it unknown? (- if unknown, do not explore, stop and avoid wasting time in it!)
3) Is it there any limit? (- if there is limit, and crossing this limit, stop it!)
4) Is it on proper time? (- if it is on improper time for doing, stop doing it!)
5) Is it a pleasing way of doing? (- if it is not pleasing, stop it!)
6) Is it a planned one? (- if yes, and you are out of the plan, stop it!)
7) Is it on an agreement? (- if yes, and it is against the agreement, stop doing it!)

Ask yourself these all seven questions each time you detract and act as shown within the brackets above to make yourself congenial to you yourself, and to the relatives, neighbors, friends and others - and to prevent any loss coming out of the work!

Choose the best and the right!

Choose the right and the best for you, yourself. Do not let others choose one for you; it may be advantageous for them in someway. If you are inexperienced, you can yourself seek the help and advices of others; but choose the right and the best one among them for you, yourself, here too!