August 29, 2019

Get help; but don't load others!

    At a time, when one has too many works to do, he/ she can delegate unimportant works to other family members or friends. He should do his own important work - he only should do it, and that work should not be delegated to others. After doing that work, he can do his other unimportant works that remain to be done by him. He only should do them, and complete. He should not ask others to do these works, as he is now free to do them, one by one, till all of them are finished.

August 22, 2019

Time only heals or divides!

      When you know much, understand subconsciously, and love to be with the person/ object/ body/ mind, you are united with that person/ object/ body/ mind unconsciously.

      On the reverse, if you have understood only for a shorter time, and want to move away from the person/ object/ body/ mind subconsciously, you are now different and separated from that person/ object/ body/ mind subconsciously.

      So, the period of time spent for undestanding is the key factor. And it will be also the key for smoothness and harmony.

      Thus, if here is misunderstanding in the place of understanding, either for a shorter period or a longer period of time, there are equal chances of both uniting or separating.

      Time only heals or divides! This healing or dividing depends on adaptiveness and adjustment, or on disharmony.

August 5, 2019

Don't compare - to remain united!

      A depressed or a rich person may feel himself to be different from the rest of the people; but all of these men may also have alongside, the same feeling of separation from the human society. Noting being and feeling oneself different, makes one to separate out from the group. This may be due to his feeling inferior or envying on others or due to his pride. Being out of the group, they may go in search of people having similar interest and intellect. So, to avoid such separation and this vain searching, one should not compare himself with others; while being in the group, he should feel as one, as others feel themselves as one among the group! And not as different!