Change decisions to adhere to the society!

For your better tomorrow, change your earlier decisions according to the present situation that has turned up now; then adhere/adjust to this newly made decision without being stubborn. Such change and adjustment of each member helps also in smooth functioning of the entire human society.

Women made as pleasant mom and wife!

By virtue of their nature, women are made as a pleasant member of a family for both the born baby and the husband. Because, both of these later members need her pleasant nature so that they are sent into the world (society) after being cheered up - the baby grown up into adult and made fit to enter into the world of living and the husband energized, refreshed or consoled inside the house to be let out again into the world for doing his earning duty!

Being wise with intelligence!

Even intelligence may be misused by intelligent people in wasteful ways. They must direct themselves in useful ways and become wise in using their intelligence.

Learn and choose in work to continue or avoid!

In every activity, we must first learn or infer something - either to do it or not to do it. If we are rewarded in it, we must continue with it; but we must avoid it if we are affected by it. If it is not then possible to avoid it, you can adjust with others in doing that work at present, sharing the difficulties. If it continues to affect you even then, discontinue it and shift to another work that you expect to be more rewarding and gratifying.

Limit activity to save time and get satisfied!

If you limit any of your activity after assessing its consuming time, use, advantage, value and worthiness, you can save yourself from unnecessary wastage of energy and time. You can do other useful activities in that saved time and get satisfied with it.

Find out and support!

If possible give protection, support and care to others who are in need of them. These are required by all at each level of age and at various situations, stages and status of life. The most of such people requiring support are hesitant too. So, find them out yourself apart from those seeking your support by themselves, and extend the arm of help to them. If you offer such care and support either moral or material (or both of these), you appear/become a God to them.

Expressing words by/of body or mind!

Do these words have the same or different meanings?

Desire
Want
Require
Willing
Like
Wish
Need

It is not clear to you, isn't it? Some of them have more or less the same meaning while others have different meanings and usage:
1. Desire and Like:
    I 'desire' something - to have or to be done.
    I 'like' something - to have or to be done.
                    Here both words use 'I' - I ( both the body and mind) desire/like to have something near or to be done to satisfy the inner self (soul).

2. Want and Need:
    I 'want' something - to have or to be done.
    I 'need' something - to have or to be done.
                    Here both the words use 'I' - (but either for the body or the mind) - (I,) the body/mind wants/needs something or something to be done for the convenience or comforts.

3. Require:
    I 'require' something - for my body.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the body) - 'I require to have something.'

4. Willing:
    I am 'willing' to have something - for my mind.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the mind) - 'I am willing to have something.'
5. Wish:
    I 'wish' to have something - for my body.
                   Here the word uses 'I' - (mainly for the body) - 'I wish to have something' - but that is not needed at present or it is not essential to have it now.

This is an anatomy of expressions :) 

                                   

Express gratitude by visits and feel the God!

Greatness of a person/God shall be felt and appreciated only when we are near that person/God. So, we feel the "God's" presence and His greatness when we enter the temple. And in appreciating the "greatness" of the person, who has helped us at the time of need, we also feel the presence of God too out of it! So, the "God" and the "greatness" are equated here. Then, why shouldn't we visit temple and the person whenever we feel the greatness of that person? This is to express our gratitude and also to get the feel of  presence of God, doubly :)
17.08.2013:
Read here what I read recently and that Jagadh Guru Sri Chandrasekaraswamigal (Kaanchi Periavar) had advised all earlier in the past. I am wondering how his advice is the same as that I have posted above on 25.03.2013 in this blog post! (Click on the text to read maximized).

Refresh to enjoy!

To enjoy with a good mood  whether it is your activity or that of others, first your body and mind must have refreshed themselves with your rest and sleep. 

Wasting resting time working as a slave!

After returning from our day's work we sit before either computer or TV screen in our leisure time. But at the end of such watching much after much, we find all our leisure time exhausted and that it often extends beyond it - reducing our interaction with the family members. These time-wasting devices make ourselves a slave by making us to do more tasks by their prompting and commanding instructions/ads displayed on their screens! Our resting time is thus wasted by working hard at home. Such working hard in a tired state may predispose one to diseases also.

Find bliss in service to others

If you feel or find your environment give you only sorrow, forget about that environment itself - by keeping yourself engaged and absorbed in the service to others. This is the way to find bliss in life at this present period of life.

Live in this moment!

Live in this moment. Do not dream about the future or recollect the past. Both of these are not present now - they are not present at this moment to be utilised by you. Only this present moment is with you. So, live in it; utilise it and enjoy your life with it.