Get help; but don't load others!

    At a time, when one has too many works to do, he/ she can delegate unimportant works to other family members or friends. He should do his own important work - he only should do it, and that work should not be delegated to others. After doing that work, he can do his other unimportant works that remain to be done by him. He only should do them, and complete. He should not ask others to do these works, as he is now free to do them, one by one, till all of them are finished.

Help to get helped!

     Think about the need of help that other family members might be expecting or requiring from you for themselves. Help them. And expect help for your needs from them too. And make them think about your needs, understand about it, and help you. This will make a better living, relationship, and will give much benefits within the family.

Don't beat yourself!

      Retaliating with the members in your family will only bounce back to yourself as a rifle recoils itself back or as a boomerang returns back; this effect shall be realized later only. It is like beating on yourself thinking that the other person is a different one standing in front of you!