Move like a toothed wheel to get benefits!

         The social family system, in which a person lives in, is so designed that there are only overall benefits and advantages out of it for him or her. That too needs adjusting with one another, giving up certain things, and also demanding and getting certain things. So, though a person feels disgusted with his/her present family system, overall, he/she will find it out to be the most advantageous, a safer and the best one to be present. So, a person in a social family system must be like a toothed wheel to move with the other toothed wheel (spouse) smoothly - to run the entire life machine easily and smoothly!

Helping too much lands you in trouble!

       You can win others if you find their needs, their preferences and offer these to them. And you can even correct their mistakes, and also offer them timely help. But too much indulgence in it may breed envy and make them reject your offers; beware of this!

Expect with a happy mood, and enjoy!

      In any function, event or activity, there will be enthusiasm and satisfaction only when a pleasant expectation of it is induced in all its participants - that too well before the start of the function. In addition to that, that function should be carried out by all smoothly with involvement, with ease, with freed mind, with a happy mood, and without any inhibition too. Then the satisfaction will be felt by all the participants even before the ending of the function, and also after the function is over, long lasting - without any feeling of lost enjoyment!

Advice on advising others!

        Unlike giving succour at difficult situations, others may or may not accept either our voluntary suggestion or advice in any matter. They may dislike or reject them hurting us. But when they seek us, and ask us, we can give advice; but with that they may not get satisfied. So, do advise them in such a situation, but only when you know their ulterior motive for such approach; otherwise, be cautious, on guard and don't indulge too much in it: advise only - that too lightly!