Agreements of our family system!

        All relations and relationships in the family system of human beings are unwritten agreements that assign, approve or allow its each member’s post or position in the family, to be accepted and followed – to exist as such inside the realm of this family system!

Help to get helped!

     Think about the need of help that other family members might be expecting or requiring from you for themselves. Help them. And expect help for your needs from them too. And make them think about your needs, understand about it, and help you. This will make a better living, relationship, and will give much benefits within the family.

Don't beat yourself!

      Retaliating with the members in your family will only bounce back to yourself as a rifle recoils itself back or as a boomerang returns back; this effect shall be realized later only. It is like beating on yourself thinking that the other person is a different one standing in front of you!

Move like a toothed wheel to get benefits!

         The social family system, in which a person lives in, is so designed that there are only overall benefits and advantages out of it for him or her. That too needs adjusting with one another, giving up certain things, and also demanding and getting certain things. So, though a person feels disgusted with his/her present family system, overall, he/she will find it out to be the most advantageous, a safer and the best one to be present. So, a person in a social family system must be like a toothed wheel to move with the other toothed wheel (spouse) smoothly - to run the entire life machine easily and smoothly!

Participate to arrive at a decision!

You have past half of your life. Every thing expected in life is achieved and completed. Now, you leave every activity of the family members to happen by itself and ignore them without any action from your side. This is equal to your committing suicide before your actual end of your life. So, do participate in their activities, discuss with them and make them arrive at a good solution, decision or resolution.