Living by participating in activities!

      After retirement from your work, if you leave every occasion/situation/event to go on as by itself and ignore them without any action from your side, it is equal to your finishing your own life yourself. So, do participate in all the activities, discuss with others to make them understand the problem, find solutions to them and to arrive at a good result. 

Participate to arrive at a decision!

You have past half of your life. Every thing expected in life is achieved and completed. Now, you leave every activity of the family members to happen by itself and ignore them without any action from your side. This is equal to your committing suicide before your actual end of your life. So, do participate in their activities, discuss with them and make them arrive at a good solution, decision or resolution.

Choosing between Argument and Discussion

Argument on a matter gives only uncertainties at the end. A solution will not be arrived at easily. An argument often ends with emotional upheaval, and quarrel between the parties involved. But a discussion on the matter exposes the ignorance present in both sides of the parties. It makes them easily accept their ignorance and lets them learn calmly the facts and the realities by themselves, and to arrive at a solution easily and quickly - in a friendly manner.