Responding to a criticism

Respond to the real and sound criticism only, and not to that imagined, invented or supposed by you to have been spoken of, or to that imagined or invented by the critic himself!

Reward from an ideal goal!

Nobody can achieve the ideal goal. But however there must be an ideal goal in life centered towards our benefits. Everyone of us must strive to achieve the ideal goal even though we have little money and shorter span of time for that. Later on this will surely reward us as we proceed on in our way of life time - and also our descendants!

Choosing between Argument and Discussion

Argument on a matter gives only uncertainties at the end. A solution will not be arrived at easily. An argument often ends with emotional upheaval, and quarrel between the parties involved. But a discussion on the matter exposes the ignorance present in both sides of the parties. It makes them easily accept their ignorance and lets them learn calmly the facts and the realities by themselves, and to arrive at a solution easily and quickly - in a friendly manner.

Aim and reach target with this http!

Health, time, trust and priority (http) must be considered in doing any work! Health should not be affected; trust should not be lost and the time should not be wasted. And unimportant work should not be undertaken. We work with the aim of selecting and enjoying pleasures in our lifetime with good health and faith. This ultimate target of doing any work should not be forgotten.

Time passing and Time wasting devices!

Such as Computer, Television, Telephone and Electronic games are noted as time-wasting devices. But these same devices become time-passing devices at the hands of idle persons apart from being as time-wasting (consuming) devices actually!

Save time by 'giving it up'!

You might have been perplexed many times after attempting to complete a work and finding it still incomplete, and done not satisfactorily. In addition you might have also felt that you have wasted a lot of your valuable time on it. To avoid this the mantra here is simply 'give up' and do not continue the work or even do not think about it then! There are also definitely time wasting devices such as Computer, Television, Telephone and Electronic games. You can also see the best example for the time wasting nature of these devices from the words of Bill Gates, the Chairman of Microsoft:

"In spite the many benefits of the digital revolution, some technology could waste people's time if they weren't careful"

He too 'gave it up' the work of using the social networking Facebook for himself as, 'way too much trouble'!

So, select carefully a suitable work, do it carefully to complete it, but give it up if it is time wasting without giving you any proportionate benefits out of it.

Shine bright by asking questions!

You can achieve to your most , and shine in limelight - if you ask (think) yourself about these :

1) 'What is there that gives me pleasure?'

2) 'What is there that relieves my trouble?'

3) 'What are my own needs there?'

[You can raise these questions at a given time, at a given place or at a given situation. You can raise them not only for you yourself, but also for your relative or friend, or for your group of persons].

And if you find out best answer for each of these, and act accordingly to your most, you will get the limitless benefits and/or credits out of it!

Do all, not a few at all times!

If you indulge in a work too much, at the end you may get the appreciation on your achievement - by some of the people. But you may not appear normal to others living near you. You can instead do all - both the duty bound and the interesting works so that many people can appreciate you from the start of the work itself. The best example for this is studying for the examinations: if you read all the subjects of the course equivocally and appear for the exams, you pass out with flying colors)! All will appreciate you now, is it not? (Reading only a few subjects for a long time overlooking all the rest and failing in other exams - and hence not promoted to the higher class is disgusting). Likewise, apply this to your works and see the honor and appreciation you receive!

Doing wonders in life!

When a man/woman sees excellence in everything with faith, and follows it with well directed mind, he/she gets and does everything wonderful in his/her life!

Basis of Society - Mutual benefits!

The basis of human society is mutual benefits that each of its members get by association with each other. If there is no mutual benefit at all there would have been no social sense, and man would have lived by himself lonely, and there would have been no spoken language that has been developed for the social use! In ancient times when a man was corrected by another man indicating his mistakes, they both understood the benefits of association with others, and then wanted to be social always ( - and thus the language was also developed!).

Stop yourself after questioning these yourself!

Ask yourself:
1) Is it needed? (- if it is not needed, do not continue; stop doing it!)
2) Is it unknown? (- if unknown, do not explore, stop and avoid wasting time in it!)
3) Is it there any limit? (- if there is limit, and crossing this limit, stop it!)
4) Is it on proper time? (- if it is on improper time for doing, stop doing it!)
5) Is it a pleasing way of doing? (- if it is not pleasing, stop it!)
6) Is it a planned one? (- if yes, and you are out of the plan, stop it!)
7) Is it on an agreement? (- if yes, and it is against the agreement, stop doing it!)

Ask yourself these all seven questions each time you detract and act as shown within the brackets above to make yourself congenial to you yourself, and to the relatives, neighbors, friends and others - and to prevent any loss coming out of the work!

Choose the best and the right!

Choose the right and the best for you, yourself. Do not let others choose one for you; it may be advantageous for them in someway. If you are inexperienced, you can yourself seek the help and advices of others; but choose the right and the best one among them for you, yourself, here too!

Forethought in starting a project!

Before staring any new project, one should assess probability of its completion, possibility of its execution and presence of adequate resources. Then the concerned people who are to be inducted into the project must be called in for discussion about it. Without all these it will be hard to start the project itself, and there will be a much more probability of incurring loss in the project. So, one should have forethought in starting a project.

Motivation factors for pleasures!

Children see others doing some work and getting pleasures out of it. And they also note the delight and the satisfaction on their face appearing after that. By these the children are kindled to do those works by themselves and get pleasures that are hitherto unknown to them. Once they do and find out the pleasures themselves they go on to do the work repeatedly. They also express their happiness, delight and satisfaction on their face, and in words spoken. Other children watching these activities are also kindled; they too start to do by themselves. These are the basics of motivation for/and having pleasures from our environment!

Listen, identify by similarity or difference!

We, the earth living creatures, basically, listen to our environment, then after sometime identify the objects seen earlier in the environment - by similarity, and then in close-up identify any change - by difference, in the same object seen earlier. These processes of listening, identifying and finding differences go on repeatedly in all of our activities – since our birth! These processes are the necessities – to live on in this earth!