Adapted, and so, adopted to newer styles too!

      In the past, our ancestors wore cloths they liked and had a different style of living that amazes us today. Each of them saw since their birth, that the same style of life was being continued by their parents and neighbhours constantly, resisting changes, and so, adapted to it, they adopted it. They reflected the same style in their life too not disturbing others by living differently. Their children too followed them on seeing them. 

Though our present generation's living style has changed much from that of ancestor's styles through years, by adopting different styles, our body and mind are the same as that of our ancestors. Our understanding capacity too hasn’t changed at all, and it remains constant all through the generations from our ancestors to the present generation, making the life peaceful, without any conflict, through there has been slow adopting to newer styles of living.

Stop thoughts and clear doubts!

     One should put a full stop earlier to either a train of thought or a doubting situation. Because, these two will occupy whole of your mind, and consume all your mind energy and your valuable time. So, find out a good and final resoluton with a good decision-making effort. And clear your doubts completly by discussing and understanding the present reality. These are important to continue your nomal, routine and regular life as before.

Children are 'children only' in understanding!

      Children have limited power of understanding from age to age. Their abilities should not be even attempted to be pushed up towards adults' level. If you do so, it may produce imbalance in their mind  and affect them at their emotional level. All such levels in the kids should be equal and balancing. Do not treat kids as adults learning their subjects or as adults doing mischiefs There are also 'children only' levels. And do not make their levels to become 'adults only' levels! Let them learn or understand according to their age and capacity. Treat children as children at children's level only - both in punishing and appreciating too. Do not overload them thinking and treating them as adults!

Pick better tools to express yourself!

    Words are the tools of expression and communication for making others understand our thoughts, feelings and opinion. First we must have our views clear before expressing; then we must choose all the best words for that. With them, we should speak clearly or write legibly (type correctly). But be careful not to express with a few words in a hurry, as they may convey different message and understanding in the recipient. Use enough words that are simpler and understandable without any guessing work at the recipient's end!

Compare/match always to get awareness!

           Feeling, understanding and memory - all these constitute awareness in a human being. There are two kinds of awareness - one internal, concerning both the body and mind and the other one, external, concerning the environment. These two types of awareness are done and hence present at that moment by comparing and matching the differences found between the past state of the mind & body or the environment and the present state of them respectively. They are constantly revised and updated from moment to moment. In old age, such comparing the differences is done between the past state of the mind & body and the present state of the environment. It is also done between the present state of the mind & body and the past state of the environment (- as seen in the yogis doing yoga who feel better in the present state of body & mind, and hence they become aware of it!). When the person dies, these all awareness too go off as he/she!

Understand subconscious mind in you!

Subconscious mind is felt present in us whenever we understand each others' presence as a separate one in this world and in its environment. Subconscious mind is one and the same for all - universal! It is only our understanding others in a separate form or body by our self mind that divides this universal mind into a separate one for each one and is named now as subconscious mind for each one of us. Subconscious mind is the submerged and subdued mind that is not felt when we are busy and indulged in our external activities. Note that only due to its separation and presence in each individual's body form, it appears to appreciate others or envy on others - all externally. But see that pain and hunger are present in all of us and these unite all of us into one - to form a group to relieve them; now here our subconscious minds too unite into one! We now feel us one. Note that not only we, humans have these subconscious minds, but also all those animals that feel pain and hunger, and have also the understanding power. So, we find that this subconscious mind pervades all and everywhere universally. Could it be HE whom and whose whereabouts we are searching for million years - the GOD, I wonder! Could you feel HIM now - in you?

Understanding for Decision!

The level of understanding becomes deep and deep appreciably as you age on and on, when compared to your younger generations. But it is cut short and blocked by your emotions such as fondness and dislike. This block induces you to take a hasty decision. So, think a while, whenever you become emotional. It will clear off the block and lead you to take a fair decision.