Help before others ask you!

     A person should make others, especially children, remember about him throughout their lifetime. For that, he must be a good friend, guide and adviser in all the matters that others (children) might be seeking or desiring for. Thus, a helping attitude must be exercised in anticipation of others’ (children) needs, even before they ask him for helping!

Educating or advising is to get disciplined in life!

   In human society, every people is expected to do each work as accepted and expected by all. For example, if a person wants to use a road that is used by all the people, he/she is expected to know all the road rules agreed upon, and to follow them while using the road. If no one either knows the rules or no one follows them, you know what will happen: all will risk their lives and get their vehicles involved in accidents, incidents or collisions. Similarly, a child doesn’t know either rules of the society to live in it or follow it. So, the children are persuaded to know them and follow them. Since their childhood, parents and teachers train them through persisting advices and school education - to adhere to the rules of the society. Thus their minds are disciplined to steer through the routine life smoothly inside the human society.

First, let kids to play!

      Children are interested more in activities of learning and enjoying than in eating food items. That is why they give their first preference to activities. Then, they turn to the food items next, as they now feel the hunger. So, don’t force them to eat first; they themselves shall come towards you soon, demanding food!

The goal of education

     Children must be informed that through their education they can get knowledge, earn money with the job, good position in the society and in their family circles, and enjoy all through their lifetime. They must be also made to realise that mere job-getting and earning money is not the goal of education; but it is only the getting of all the benefits out of it.

Children's response towards objects or activities!

        For any object found or any activity done in the environment, children observe first, respond then to get sensual pleasure; next, inferring that their response gives them pleasure, they repeat the same response again and again, till they become skilled in that response!

Children extend their love towards all!

        Children do not find and choose religion or caste within themselves in making friendship. They do not discriminate between themselves. And they see in them only one human kind having only humans, and not many separate kinds within it!

Make kids enjoy their lives!

   Let or make the children desire, seek, be absorbed, concentrated and involved in educational and playing activities to forget about the routinized (adult) life, that we live, and enjoy their own childhood life!

Advise, remind and repeat to get response!

      Advise, remind and repeat - these are the three words that the ageing parents have to keep in mind and use for helping their children, who don't respond to their advice at present. Even though their children do not respond now, they may get an idea from this advising to respond at times of emergency situation in future.

Children are 'children only' in understanding!

      Children have limited power of understanding from age to age. Their abilities should not be even attempted to be pushed up towards adults' level. If you do so, it may produce imbalance in their mind  and affect them at their emotional level. All such levels in the kids should be equal and balancing. Do not treat kids as adults learning their subjects or as adults doing mischiefs There are also 'children only' levels. And do not make their levels to become 'adults only' levels! Let them learn or understand according to their age and capacity. Treat children as children at children's level only - both in punishing and appreciating too. Do not overload them thinking and treating them as adults!

Decrease to a minimum!

      It is everybody's nature to show their ability and capability to do their activities to a higher level. But this nature may affect both that person indulging in it and the children around him. For example, if you increase the TV sound volume, you may feel exhilarated; but the children around you shall be attracted by the sound towards the TV, stopping their playing/activities. This shall compromise on their learning. And it shall make them addicted to TV-viewing, and lead a sedentary life style in future. It is needless to say that all those listening to the TV with high volume shall also become susceptible to hearing loss. So, in TV listening, reduce volume level to a minimum.
        Another example for showing such high abilities is the raising accelerator of the vehicles to the maximum that shall land the person in trouble, surely.

'Children only' levels!

        Children have limited understanding capabilities depending upon their knowledge gained from age to age. This capability of them should not be even tried to be pushed up towards adult level. If you do so, it may affect children's emotional and mental functions. All such levels of understanding, knowledge, emotion and mentality should be equal and balancing, pertaining to the age of the child.
Do not treat kids as adults learning their school subjects or doing mischief. There are 'children only' levels too. Do not make these levels crossed and moved to the 'adults only' levels! Let them learn or understand according to and appropriate to their ages.
Treat children as children at children's level only - both in punishing and appreciating too. Do not overload kids as adults!

Make kids enjoy now!

      Children have simple and singly concentrating mind; they have thus much potentialities to enjoy greatly than the adult members of the family. Their childhood pleasant events and enjoyment shall linger in their memories as great, all through their adulthood. So, let them enjoy in all aspects in their childhood itself by providing them all the opportunities - within limits!

Expose kids to choose and enjoy!

      Children must be exposed to all the objects, places and activities in the environment. Let them explore all. They must know about them by your expression of appreciation about them. Then, they shall have interest, and choose the proper and the best one that they like among them. Such an exposure shall shape them, and lead them to make their future life pleasant and worthy.

Greatness of Him is not yet felt!

     Greatness is understood by people either by comparing or from others' narration about it. So, greatness can be either felt through one's own senses by comparing or through others' speech/words communicated by them. Children believe in speech/words rather than believing through their senses.  'God is great' - here people choose to hear the greatness of Him through others' words only! Does any one feel His greatness through his/her senses? We are still like children believing in words! We should begin to feel Him and His greatness through our inner senses by spirituality. 

Share your enjoyment with kids!

    Create for children situations to enjoy every activity; create an environment for them to make the place enjoyable. Guide them and communicate with them to experience and enjoy every activity with wonder and enthusiasm. Involve yourself also in their activities, enjoying, and making them to have a share from your enjoyment that they will remember for lifetime.
      Even a little enjoyment, that we consider as less important one, will be a greater one to children; it will be like one of our enjoyment that we feel now and think as a great one to have in our lifetime!
      So, make life enjoyable in each activity of children so that their later life shall also be enjoyed by them pleasantly, even when we are away from them.

Have your children attached with you!

      Children wish and need attention, love and care. If you have these with you and shower them towards your children, it is sure that they become attached with you ever!

Have positive thoughts by appreciating!

Appreciate the wonderful, and beautiful, and decent objects, persons or deeds in front of children. Let our children learn it and thereby make them appreciate all those things having such nature that they come across in their lives. Then there will be only positive thoughts in the minds of all in our future generations in the world!

Hearing is the magic to sleep!

The short stories told at bedtime are enjoyed, wanted and expected by each child where ever it is in this world. After hearing the story children slip inside their blankets and sleep easily. All these stories are magic wands! When these distract children and make them sleep, why can't it do magic for adults too? As 'being told' is the magic here, submit yourself to hear someone of your family members telling nice things at bedtime - for having your sweet and sound sleep!