Happiness-extension to the greatest possibility!

        In the life of a person, the happiness shall be a limited one, as some sadness may creep in, to break it. Though making the happiness a continuous and forever, is not in our hands, we can at least control and make it to be near us! Yes, if we have many but short-spanned happinesses, we can make their spans a little wider under our control. So, now itself try to make 'happinessses' instead of expecting a single happiness of a longer duration and make their shortness broader a little, at your will; you can then soon achieve the greatest possible extension of happinesses without any limitedness in your life! 

The way to mutual and equal enjoyment!

     One says that he/she enjoyed to his/her heart's content. But they don't say always that 'we' enjoyed to the heart's contents. Because, each one is different from the other. One can feel and enjoy only with in his place, at the mind or the body. Then what makes them all enjoy, and say that 'we' enjoyed with the company and presence of each other? It is only the mutual and effective communication between them. It is the complete expression from the heart that makes them enjoy - though they are separated bodily from each other! So, communicate with the persons present in front of you with total interest and involvement, expressing that too with all the possible gesture and body languages - to enjoy the situation mutually and equally!

Stop thoughts and clear doubts!

     One should put a full stop earlier to either a train of thought or a doubting situation. Because, these two will occupy whole of your mind, and consume all your mind energy and your valuable time. So, find out a good and final resoluton with a good decision-making effort. And clear your doubts completly by discussing and understanding the present reality. These are important to continue your nomal, routine and regular life as before.

Finding out methods to follow!

      For learning, and for doing activities, three methods are there. The first one of them is to accept the experience of others to be good, easy and useful, and follow them. The second one is the observation of others doing them, forming his own opinion about it, as positive or negative, and following only the positive one; here, the negative one is rejected blindly and totally, forever, without any second thought. The third method is - testing personally the activity by himself or herself, deriving the result out of it, either to adopt the best one that suits him/her, or to reject the bad one. Find out yourself which one of these three methods you follow now, and decide whether to change it to the other one or not!

Wishing your activity enthral the world!

      In any proposed major and good establishing activity, a person should do a prior full-fledged ground work, a complete planning, and should also increase his/her skills and capabilities. Then, he must hope his best for its success by praying to the God, or by having great courage to carry out his desired activity. And then, he must also request earnestly and pray with faith to the environment, and the forces and the people involved and benefited in that activity to make it a success. And he should assure and promise them the best development, improvement and happiness to be offered to the society and the world by that activity. Then, he/she could enthral the whole world with wonders arising out of such an activity!

Conditioned kids follow approved routine of life!

          Children are born with all the capabilities of doing all the activities. But they are first taught what to do and what not to do in this world. They are set to do activities liberally - but with certain conditions. These conditions and some other instructions must be informed or communicated to them clearly, so that they understand them fully before doing any of the activities. If they are not conditioned like this, they may take liberty at their hands, go astray and cross the limits - taking routes to a rude state that the society shuns and forbids.

Mindful person has no birth or death!

        For a person in this world, "his time or his lifetime" is not pertaining to him. It is for others, to count or assess his years of age. When his activities - from his first breathing (birth) upto his last breathing that caeses (death), they are seen and felt only by others near him/her. So, the starting of life or the ending of life are seen only by others and not by the concerned person himself. Body is a form of vehicle for a person, (and it goes on changing from birth), in which he or his mind is born; it lives in it and goes out of it or stops to function, when the person's body itself stops to function totally.

Firm mind is variable!

      Everything in this world, or the Universe changes; but mind only can be controlled to resist changes in it, and it can be also kept as such always. But sometimes that mind itself could also be relaxed and changed when a change in it becomes essential or important for the existence itself in this world! So, a 'change' in all should be expected and accepted.

Making anything into a possibility!

        Everything is possible in this world, if there is the need, and the desire, and if the concerned activity is also done with hope, involvement and perseverance.

What makes one peep?

Everybody likes to peep into others' affairs, possessions and minds mostly due to these following only!

- in curiosity
- in competing with
- in finding fault with
- in envy
- for making fun
- for incriminating
- for comparing
- for judging.

Children are 'children only' in understanding!

      Children have limited power of understanding from age to age. Their abilities should not be even attempted to be pushed up towards adults' level. If you do so, it may produce imbalance in their mind  and affect them at their emotional level. All such levels in the kids should be equal and balancing. Do not treat kids as adults learning their subjects or as adults doing mischiefs There are also 'children only' levels. And do not make their levels to become 'adults only' levels! Let them learn or understand according to their age and capacity. Treat children as children at children's level only - both in punishing and appreciating too. Do not overload them thinking and treating them as adults!

Communicate, to be not envied upon!

       When you do caring activities with the person moving near you, with the consciousness of his presence, and communicating with him now and then, you and that person merge as one body having one mind! But when you go away at a distance and do activities with another person, the former person feels you as a separate individual and may begin to envy, and become sad due to the separation.
      To avoid such situation, you should do activities first with both the persons and communicate with both of them. Later on, even when you are separate with the second person, the first person may not become depressed or envy, though he may feel the separation yet; he shall quickly adjust to such separation.
An example for this: A second baby is born in the family next to the first born kid!

Get help; but don't load others!

    At a time, when one has too many works to do, he/ she can delegate unimportant works to other family members or friends. He should do his own important work - he only should do it, and that work should not be delegated to others. After doing that work, he can do his other unimportant works that remain to be done by him. He only should do them, and complete. He should not ask others to do these works, as he is now free to do them, one by one, till all of them are finished.

Time only heals or divides!

      When you know much, understand subconsciously, and love to be with the person/ object/ body/ mind, you are united with that person/ object/ body/ mind unconsciously.

      On the reverse, if you have understood only for a shorter time, and want to move away from the person/ object/ body/ mind subconsciously, you are now different and separated from that person/ object/ body/ mind subconsciously.

      So, the period of time spent for undestanding is the key factor. And it will be also the key for smoothness and harmony.

      Thus, if here is misunderstanding in the place of understanding, either for a shorter period or a longer period of time, there are equal chances of both uniting or separating.

      Time only heals or divides! This healing or dividing depends on adaptiveness and adjustment, or on disharmony.

Don't compare - to remain united!

      A depressed or a rich person may feel himself to be different from the rest of the people; but all of these men may also have alongside, the same feeling of separation from the human society. Noting being and feeling oneself different, makes one to separate out from the group. This may be due to his feeling inferior or envying on others or due to his pride. Being out of the group, they may go in search of people having similar interest and intellect. So, to avoid such separation and this vain searching, one should not compare himself with others; while being in the group, he should feel as one, as others feel themselves as one among the group! And not as different!