Communicate, to be not envied upon!

       When you do caring activities with the person moving near you, with the consciousness of his presence, and communicating with him now and then, you and that person merge as one body having one mind! But when you go away at a distance and do activities with another person, the former person feels you as a separate individual and may begin to envy, and become sad due to the separation.
      To avoid such situation, you should do activities first with both the persons and communicate with both of them. Later on, even when you are separate with the second person, the first person may not become depressed or envy, though he may feel the separation yet; he shall quickly adjust to such separation.
An example for this: A second baby is born in the family next to the first born kid!

Get help; but don't load others!

    At a time, when one has too many works to do, he/ she can delegate unimportant works to other family members or friends. He should do his own important work - he only should do it, and that work should not be delegated to others. After doing that work, he can do his other unimportant works that remain to be done by him. He only should do them, and complete. He should not ask others to do these works, as he is now free to do them, one by one, till all of them are finished.

Time only heals or divides!

      When you know much, understand subconsciously, and love to be with the person/ object/ body/ mind, you are united with that person/ object/ body/ mind unconsciously.

      On the reverse, if you have understood only for a shorter time, and want to move away from the person/ object/ body/ mind subconsciously, you are now different and separated from that person/ object/ body/ mind subconsciously.

      So, the period of time spent for undestanding is the key factor. And it will be also the key for smoothness and harmony.

      Thus, if here is misunderstanding in the place of understanding, either for a shorter period or a longer period of time, there are equal chances of both uniting or separating.

      Time only heals or divides! This healing or dividing depends on adaptiveness and adjustment, or on disharmony.

Don't compare - to remain united!

      A depressed or a rich person may feel himself to be different from the rest of the people; but all of these men may also have alongside, the same feeling of separation from the human society. Noting being and feeling oneself different, makes one to separate out from the group. This may be due to his feeling inferior or envying on others or due to his pride. Being out of the group, they may go in search of people having similar interest and intellect. So, to avoid such separation and this vain searching, one should not compare himself with others; while being in the group, he should feel as one, as others feel themselves as one among the group! And not as different!

Requirements that make you healthy ever!

       Five requirements for anybody shall make him/ her healthy by preventing diseases. They are proper diet, proper activity, clean environment, a clean body and a clear mind!

Retain your personality - by making your own decision!

       All of us, human beings - and even some other animals, have the same sense organs and perceive the same images, sounds or feelings from the same scenario of the same environment. Only, the impact of them on our mind and the thoughts emerging out of it make our responding activities different from each other (or each animal). Previous knowledge, involvement, importance and the desire to explore/get only influence these activities. So, whenever food or gifts or any material or service is offered, use your senses and decide whether to accept it or not. You can then say an yes or no to it by this instant decision that boosts your welfare :). That's your personality - uninfluenced by the personality of anybody else!

Challenging or achieving? Choosing the best!

       If one challenges and does a deed, the resulting victory shall be lost only: soon this victory will fade away making him not satisfied with it and to challenge next for another targeted deed. A deed done with one's own desire is a different one; it may take a longer time to become victorious; but that resulting victory, called here as achievement, will be everlasting, not only in the mind of the person but also in the minds of other persons associated with him. So, choose this best one!

Kids deal by throwing away!

     Kids do not imagine anything. They don't bother about this imagining when they are asked to do it. They act only by the command evoked in their mind by the details of the objects received all through their senses. Now and then, the memory of the recent experiences on those objects also helps them in doing it. So, the kids are not tired of learning new things. In exploring new objects, they are not either confused or hesitant through imagining anything or by their past experience, If at all they begin to have again the experience on an already known object, they simply throw it away or stop exploring it, and move out of that scene! And with full expectation and enthusiasm, they become indulged, involved and absorbed there - to experience a new object!

Scholar in proportion! Mad in out of proportion!

     Imagination, with memory added to it, helps one to learn when he studies or learns in class rooms of an institution. But all these imagination, memory and sensual perceptions should be in moderate proportion for that learning. If they are done in out of proportion, whether in increased or lowered proportion, the person is made tired and confused at the end of the learning session. The person's learning is thus hindered. When imagination is done excessively, it produces bizarre perception through normal senses. If memory is also added to these excessively, then it maddens the person! So, be moderate in these; stop doing them excessively and take rest in between the sessions of learning - to become a scholar!

Freedom is the key for satisfaction!

     Freedom to perform any activity without compulsion, but with moderate self restriction, is the requirement to lead a life with full satisfaction in it!

Be wise and co-operate!

   Benefits of being co-operative, will be felt only when one feels himself/herself the loss of the companionship, incurred while being uncooperative with others!

Restricting to one's limits!

          As a person/his body ages on, he should be aware of  his own limits. And he should do activities with his body, within it's limits and to the extent of its capability only - without either overusing it or leaving it to remain idle!

Remind yourself and also advise others!

      Know that, remember that and remind yourself that, the people around you and others are not objects (or puppets, or pets) as you may think; they have their own mind and body, and freedom. They too are susceptible to changes, according to their changed situations. So, do not attempt intensively to revert them back in your way; it may be unfair to them in their angle of view. But, advise them in a few friendly words to lead and live in a good and correct path for their own welfare. Let them change themselves!

Accept changes and don't expect all!

      People of the younger age to the middle age should accept changes and situations, within limits [:)], that happen in them, in others or in the environment around them.
      But after their middle age, they should accept them all - as usual and natural things that happen in all the generations. And, they should not expect all that they wish to happen either in them, in others or in the environment around them. If they get what they expected, it's well and good; they must accept it - within limits!

Decrease to a minimum!

      It is everybody's nature to show their ability and capability to do their activities to a higher level. But this nature may affect both that person indulging in it and the children around him. For example, if you increase the TV sound volume, you may feel exhilarated; but the children around you shall be attracted by the sound towards the TV, stopping their playing/activities. This shall compromise on their learning. And it shall make them addicted to TV-viewing, and lead a sedentary life style in future. It is needless to say that all those listening to the TV with high volume shall also become susceptible to hearing loss. So, in TV listening, reduce volume level to a minimum.
        Another example for showing such high abilities is the raising accelerator of the vehicles to the maximum that shall land the person in trouble, surely.