Question, decide and get out!

If you find no time at mornings before getting out to do regular work, but want to do some extra work, read here:

Ask yourself the following.
1) Is it important and essential to do that work?
2) Is it the proper time to do that work?
3) Is there possibility to extend the allotted time for that work and that could it become more time consuming?
Find answers for them and decide on this and do it / don't do it.

If you are already in doing that work (without any such decision), ask yourself these additional questions after those said above:
1) Is there any time to complete that work?
2) Will it affect the daily routine work?
3) Is it a waste of time at doing such a work?
If answers to these later questions are No, Yes and Yes respectively, stop that work immediately and get out of it, to get out!

Inviting diseases in us!

Two third of the causes that leads us to have Hypertension or Diabetes are preventable by ourselves. Sedentary working, smoking, alcoholism, dietary habits, strain, stress and all others are within our control and can be managed well by ourselves. Half of the remaining one third of causes are from the environment (external). Example: taking unhealthy foods at parties on compulsion. But this too can be avoided by having a good will power to refuse and by sticking to the determination to choose only healthy food. The remaining few causes that are unavoidable, like that of genetic liability, can be tackled well with the medicines! So, blame only ourselves for the increasing number of such Lifestyle Diseases and not others.

Have a calm mind and be healthy!

Work related stress, strain and the hastiness at work are the culprits that make one susceptible to health disasters like Hypertension and others. In addition to these, even strain and hastiness in starting out to work could also make it worse. So, avoid these all and work with a calm mind to have a disease-free healthy life.

Postpone to have a refreshed mind!

While you have many household works at morning before getting out to attend the routine job, don't be uneasy and nervous. Instead do first only a few works that are important at that instant. Among them too, you can postpone the less important ones to a later time at evening. Now you should congratulate yourself for having done that postponing. This gives in you a ray of hope for getting out in time, that too with a refreshed mind avoiding any hastiness!

Plan and practice to remove hesitation!

In exhibiting one's skill in arts or science, he/she should be bold enough and swift in action in carrying out it. People witnessing it want to see only the elegance out of it and not the hesitation. If you plan well in advance and practice performing it repeatedly, you won't have any hesitation at the real show!

See and feel wonders to have a good mood!

Each day of our life must contain wonders and that too especially for our children. Wonders make life cheerful, and stimulate to expect more out of life. They change the mood easily from that one resulting from a dull routine life to that of an energetic, agile and fresh one. So, have your days full of wonders. Show also these wonders to children and youngsters: they won't forget you in their lifetime!

Maintain our vehicle, the Body!

We fuel, clean and maintain our vehicles in good condition. But we forget about maintaining our body, the vehicle to carry out all our wishes, whether to do an act or to think and feel! We should care for it by providing enough food, rest and sleep. And we should not ignore any urging signal arising from it, or postpone dealing with it. Have a healthy body with a healthy mind!

Plan, but do not expect!

Planning with too much imagination and expectation about its result is to be avoided. The plan itself may change later making all of such imagination and expectation futile. So, plan and carry out step by step, and enjoy the outcome stage by stage to get the full satisfaction and happiness out of it - at the end!

Have honors by doing!

Certain jobs should be done by ourselves only. Others too expect us to do them. You can train other people to do some of them. But important works always remain there only for you to be done only by you. Doing them gives honors. Do not forget this.

Pleasing work makes you intact!

If you do a work that is not pleasing, it makes only your mind dull. But if you continue to do it on and on, then your body also becomes dull and tired. During all the period of such continuing it you become like a machine or a zombie! So, move out of it to the pleasing work as soon as possible to regain your own body and mind.

Craziness dulls intellect!

Too much indulgence, craziness in anything, and being in a state of fury shall dull and blunt all our senses and intellect. Here the strong desires overcome intellect. So, do anything within the limit and be calm always. If this is not possible stop the act, the source and move away forthwith without a second thought in it *. Take rest and get a calm mind and a relaxed body. Now you shall regain all your intellect and consciousness that will make you realize your previous state and prevent you from entering into it again!
*Note: if you succeed at this point, then your intellect will overpower anything it comes across in its way.

Aim to be proud and to enjoy!

What for are we born? If we go on and on ruminating about this, we shall arrive at only these:
1) We should be proud of ourselves and about our deeds in life.
2) One should enjoy his/her life getting the most out of it - that is pleasing to his/her soul.
3) We should do deeds that will be beneficial to others too, so that those others shall be proud of us, and also remember us in all their lifetime.
We are born only for these, and remember that only these should be our ultimate aim and gain in all our actions, since after our life in this world only these will remain as gained, and will be also remembered by this world.

Rest, Recreation, Food - for refreshing!

After daily work, one must assure and ensure himself/herself a sizable period of time of rest, recreation and food. If they are denied he/she might land up in problems such as tension, weakness, dullness and disharmony at workplace and house. So, relax rules and postpone unimportant matters to relax and refresh yourself for the next day's work and enjoyment!

Aim at productive and pleasing targets!

At each moment of life your action must be oriented towards a productive and pleasing target. If something that was productive and pleasing turns now into nonproductive and starts to give displeasure, give it up and get another one that is productive and pleasing.

Find ways and free yourself!

If one finds a difficulty, he/she must find ways to remove it. After taking a good decision to remove or resolve it, he/she must switch over to the next immediate work that is waiting in this world. Keeping on worrying and being always preoccupied with the short comings that have happened or may happen out of the difficulty should be avoided. We should free our mind and body out of this locking in and move out to enjoy the other existing pleasures.

Be fresh to get a good mood!

The fresh condition of both the body and mind produces a feeling of well being, [as is against this: the affection of body and mind (either with diseases or irritations like anger and sorrow) produces an uneasy feeling]. This well being feeling creates a mood for a ready response to the external or internal stimuli (desires) - with the actions from the body and with the emotions from the mind! So, either take complete rest or tame yourself to get this well being feeling that gives you a good mood to do satisfying works.

Money incites desires - to tempt and deviate!

Temptations may arise out of desires in all people. But the presence of instant and unexpected money in poor people can influence much and incite desires and tempt them to become luxurious. It is then needless to say about the temptations in them when there is excess of money than that is required - beyond the deserving limit that may land them up in problems!

Work for enjoying with healthy body and mind!

Some people have only entertainment everyday and take rest after that. Yet some other people work all the day and after that they get entertainment before going to take rest. Among these two type of activities the first one may be good for the mind, but the next one is good for both the mind and body!

Make your travel pleasant!

Whenever we travel, the idea must not be: reach the destination somehow. If it is so, the journey will not be pleasant at all. The travel must be safe first of all. Then it should be comfortable. Lastly, it should enable us to reach our destination in time to execute our work or meet our people.

Only applying makes the difference!

Any aspect, event or object in life can be observed by people - whether they are literate or illiterate, poor or rich. But the prior knowledge about it, analysis of it and interpretation only makes the difference. So, respect the observations of all people, and specially, its usage by learned people.

Boost health with hobbies!

A hobby must not affect the health of the person doing it, and it should actually boost the health. It should be done only in the available leisure hours or minutes - after carrying out regular and routine daily works.

Constant availability boosts sales!

Products exhibited for sale must be of good quality and be available at a place and at the fixed time without any interruption in their supply. Then those products will be thought of each time and remembered by the people to buy them again and again - that boosts the sales of them.

Allot more time and enjoy!

Till yesterday you had been rushing to work each day and got frustrated to be late each time. Now, as you have allotted more time today to prepare and move out to the daily routine work, say to yourself that "I have much time today and shall go to work slowly." Note the time in the wrist watch and confirm it that you have enough time, and slow down the speed of the vehicle you are driving and begin to enjoy this slowly riding pleasure. By this way you can calm yourself avoiding the daily hasty and anxious getting out to work, safely drive through the distance, enjoy working at your office or work site with more energy, and have your health boosted up.

Save and be(come) rich!

Even if you are not so rich, you will be valued much and more, and given respect in the society, if you start and save for your future. For example, we often quote about the busy ants, bees and squirrels for being active in saving for the future!

Caring Mother or Associations!

In an orphaned child, and a person living isolated from the human society, thoughts occur in minds in its own way, haphazardly. They also face many difficulties with fear, and feel all alone. To free them from these, the child needs mother's love and care, and the person the care by the neighbors or the associations. These associations give protection and a micro-society to live on. Associated with them, the child or the person get streamlined and bundled thoughts as its other members have. Other tools to make them more socialized and active are the thought tailoring and caring 'associations' such as schools, colleges, clubs etc. that have been formed out of caring people!

Time and status changes value!

Appreciation of value by people when watching a feat, depends both on their economic status and the time of appreciation, apart from their level of knowledge about that feat. For example, we can see this in good old movies where the actors display their feat (of their times) which is not of value now, but was of great value then for our previous generations to appreciate!

Have always a peaceful mind in life!

Act in response to the desires or the needs in life, and also don't act without desires or with dislike in carrying out compelled activities and bland routine activities. (These desires and needs may be from the inner self [body/mind] or from the outer world, and also note that the compulsions and the routines may also arise equally from both inner self and the outer world!) By acting like this one could have a peaceful mind ever in his/her lifetime.

Fruits attract birds. Offers?

Trees bearing tasty fruits attract birds and squirrels to relish on and remember about. These guests also return to those trees each day remembering about the good and tasty fruits. Similarly, a business firm should produce quality products and give (free) offers of them - occasionally (if possible!), to get non-stop flow of customers! Then these customers shall search in future for its products and buy them where ever they are and where ever they go!

Alert yourself and others too!

In doing a routine to get out for work at morning, one should prepare himself for it at the previous day evening itself. This will lessen the burden at morning. Moreover his getting out is not entirely dependent on him only, but also on those other inmates of the house, who prepare for and make his getting out easier and in time! So, the person should also alert beforehand those inmates to do their preparatory work in time, so that he could get out in time.
Related posts in this blog:
Allot time to finish in time!
Sort out work and time!

Safeguard position; do not boast!

A person should not boast. Due to this he/she may be pulled down from the present high position (or deprived of possession). Or others seeing him/her boasting may go up higher in position by their further persevering attempts to rise above. It may happen the worst to a person if he/she lies about the present position or possession and goes on boasting about its existence. One must be quiescent and enjoy the benefits of high position or possession, and try to retain it.

Be careless in Care to enjoy!

As a child, first we were introduced only to the taste sensation of the fruits or any other food. But not to their worthiness in keeping our body fit and disease-free! Mom thought all about them, took care and gave the chosen fruits to taste. Likewise, certain facilities have been provided by the society to be availed by the public. But the people do not care to see how fair and why they are provided. If any one understands this ' how and why' it may lessen his/her interest in enjoying the pleasures or facilities in life. So, be careless 'in Care' - to enjoy life like a child!

Select and limit food for longer life!

Food is consumed to sustain and continue our life. In it, the taste in the foods makes us to choose the desired food our self. Moreover, this tasting sense with other senses can also check for the quality of the food. Our past experience in us helps also in selecting the healthy food. But above all these, our mind only can limit the quantity of the food we take! So, to have a longer life expectancy, one should select food with senses and experience, and consume it after checking it first with the taste sense. And limit such consuming to the requirement and satisfaction of the body with the effective control on mind.

Writing history? No, no. Make History!

In writing history, we report about others for others to read about. What is the use in it for us? Moreover, others shall refer to the matter only when they want to read it. At other times it will lie idle. What if you yourself make history of yourself by your character or deeds that others are going to appreciate and write about as History? [It excites (kindles) you, isn't it?] For that, do not waste your entire time in writing or reporting: you have your own place, body, mind, time and environment to act for yourself and impress upon others. Don't lose the opportunities in your life: awake yourself, rise up from the chair, leave the desk and move to the external world!
(Biographers, Historians, Journalists, Reporters, Advertisers and Bloggers, excuse me! It is only a revelation of facts to open your closed eyes to the realities of the existing world and time, that belongs to your presence and time only! Be aware of that)

Think twice but not always!

In doing daily activities our body works a lot, and then takes rest during sleep. We use our mind to think and then act. Usually we think only for a few seconds at a time, but act for a longer time putting our body to work more than the mind. But we should not put our body to work sparingly, and go on thinking for a long time: it is against our human nature. Even if you do so at any time, you must let your mind to stop its thinking, relax and take rest - by sleeping. Otherwise the mind itself may stop its working! So, do not load unnecessarily your mind. Divert yourself in other activities and take rest or sleep to relax both the mind and body to make them to be healthy at all times.

Opinions about Expenditures!

There is always differences in opinion about the expenditure incurred, both in the older generations and the younger generations. Older one thinks of it as too much, whereas the younger thinks it as normal! Older compares the 'number' value of the present day expenditure with that of his/her past experience. But the younger compares the 'existing number' values only, that are presented to him/her and to his/her peer groups. Older one should realize this and that the past number value does not hold now, and the younger should understand and respect the nature of the older and limit their expenditure to avoid any unnecessary and wasteful argument between them.

Ads, the cause for Dacoity!

Unexpected dacoities are happening frequently: so, what could be the cause for these? The main cause is the desire to get the luxury things that could not be acquired in one's lifetime. These luxury is not needed for a contented and peaceful life. Then what is the reason for such unnecessary desires? Of many, the powerful is the influence of advertisements that promise pleasures for all - irrespective of the people's purchasing capacity, whether they are rich or poor! For curbing this, people must choose the suitable advertisement media that evokes only those desires that fit to their buying capacity. So, to lessen dacoity indirectly, people must limit themselves in getting such information and conveying them to others.

Obey rules in unity for safety!

If a person obeys the rules of the Nation, he/she feels united with all the people of the Nation. If he/she gets advantage or pleasure by disobeying those rules, it means that the person has separated himself/herself away from the national stream. But the person's life will be restless and in danger always. To get the protection and be calm, each and everyone of the Nation should obey its rules, and feel the warmth of protection that is provided by this unity.

Want to learn much more?

We learn by doing; but we learn much more after our yearning or suffering! This later type of learning and the knowledge got out of it will be remembered all through our lifetime unlike the volatile learning and knowledge from methodical reading and doing.

Save and protect lives!

We protect our machines from damages by providing care to them. Then why should not we protect the other living things that live or exist with us (such as ants etc.)? Remember that we, as humans, are incapable to remake or wake them up from their death done by killing! We should not kill them as far as they do not harm us, and should protect them from being killed as far as possible - without ourselves being harmed or harming ourselves, in the act.

Communicate through actions!

'Our actions must be reflective of our thoughts', that is, the people around a person should be able to understand instantly his or her thoughts or intentions by the actions or the movements he or she does before them. Then only it can be said that the person is in human social group.

Time has no End or Beginning!

As we wish, we can shift our place of residence to another place nearby or far off. But we cannot shift our existence from today to yesterday or tomorrow! So, note that 'time' has no limits - end or beginning. (Or we may be inside that unknown great period of time unconscious about it!). We, as humans, have only just apportioned the ensuing future or the past time into equal parts for our convenience and easier management of time - in harmony with the periodicity of our earth's weather conditions. After realizing this, now each and every one of us shall infer from this that the arrival of a New Year is just a part of our counting of years - one after the other, as we had counted earlier the previous year at its arrival!

Anyway if this declared End and Beginning give hope and happiness, I say, 'Bye' to 2009 and 'Welcome' to 2010!

"Wish you all a Happy and Prosperous New Year!"